I know this bi guy an we recently "hooked up" but it only happened once an he gave me head and now things are a little awkward between us but i really like him and was wonderin does anyone know wat i should do about it?
2006-12-30 03:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by kibeth012 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe you suck at head
2006-12-30 03:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by mary_not_cathy 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Thing changed when there is something happen in between. There is always a reason for every problem. In a positive side, there is always a solution for every problem. Do not think narrow or being pessimist. Open up your mind and try to investigate of the problem occured. Deal with it healthily and do not be confused or being worry over because that would only messing up the situation when you are not steady or stable. Be cool and always prepared for every answers. You should be open and dare to ask him for clarification. The way he is acting towards you is pratically unfair because you don't know what is happening. Go straight to him and ask for the reason. When dealng with him, make sure be cool and try to deal in a peaceful way. Give your best answers for any questions he asked. Asked him to give the most rationale answers as well. If there is something that he feels uncomfortable, give him some toleration and analyse the problem, whether you can change yourself or he suppose to or not. Well this depends on you, if you think there is a good rationale reasons for you to change yourself. Do not force him in any situations. Maintain to be cool and give him some times. Make everything clear at once and maintain the relationship, the most important. When you able to maintain the good relation, that's mean you still have the chance to persuade him and influence his decision. Who knows, one day in the future he would accept it again. Just pray hard and put some best efforts in it. The final judgement leave it to god. Good luck for you!
2006-12-30 11:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't give any details as to how or where from you know this bi guy. If he identifies as a bi guy, perhaps he feels uncomfortable because he isn't sure how "you" will handle this new information.
Could it be that he is afraid you may "out" him? Leave him alone...don't hound him. He's probably all nervous. Whatever your relationship before was.....keep it that way. If he likes you and wants to get together again...let him make the first move.
Whatever you do......DON"T TELL ANYONE ELSE!
Good luck & Happy New Year
2006-12-30 11:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Canadian Ken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either likes you a lot or you were just a trick and he never wants to see you again. It's up to you to find out for sure. He is not about to just come right out and tell you on his own.
If you start by telling him how much you like him, that will get his defenses up. Begin by mentioning that he seems a bit awkward around you and ask him if there is something bothering him. If he wants to talk about it, let him do most of the talking. If he doesn't want to talk about it, then don't push it. The "bi" guy is probably gay as a picnic basket and isn't ready to admit it to you or himself.
2006-12-30 11:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might think that you think less of him now for doing it. Was he drunk, were You drunk? Do you think that he did it just for fun, did he enjoy it was he comfortable doing it, see there are lots of questions that only you and him can answer. You should tell him that you enjoyed it and would like to know how he feels about the situation. but do it when you and him can talk about it with no one else around
2006-12-30 11:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just straight out be like do you like me or did you just use me for that stuff? And tell him how you feel about him. It's all you can really do. Good luck & Happy New Year!
2006-12-30 11:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by kulpbre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him if he wants to hook up again, that way you'll know whether or not to continue hoping for something more.
2006-12-30 11:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is acting awkward about it, he is probably feeling awkward, give him time.
2006-12-30 11:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him and be honest about how you feel and what you perceive. He'll appreciate it.
2006-12-30 11:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by barrych209 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know thanks for two points
2006-12-30 11:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by mursal a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋