I'd like to do something nice for my partner every day. It can range from the smallest of gestures to most extravagant of experiences or gifts. I may not be able to do or give them all now but some day I might be able to. You may have done something that was nice or special in some way in the past and I'd love the hear about it. I'll be adding all good ideas for my website www.ilovemondays.net and sharing with as many people as I can. Make 2007 a year to really show your partner, friends and family you love them.
For example one idea I was given was to keep a diary for 100 days (number of days is not important) and record something nice about your partner each day. This is the only thing you should right about. Then give this to your partner out of the blue. it doesn't have to be valentines day or a birthday. I think it would be more special to give it on an ordinary day out of the blue...
2006-12-30 02:41:56 · 14 answers · asked by mondaylover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. send her a single rose or her favorite flower (overrated, but it can help make her smile and her day special)
2. if she gets a day off during the week, send her to a nice spa to just relax and be pampered
3. plan a picnic for one saturday when you know she has nothing planned and take her on a picnic on the cuntryside
4. cook for her with light romantic music playing in the background(if you don't or haven't already)
5. buy her something sexy you think she will like and enjoy, a dress or a piece of lingerie, or a charm, earrings, necklace, etc...and when she gets home leave notes and clues to where she can find it and have her go on a small scavenger hunt in your home.
6. send her a not everyday to work telling her something different you love about her, or she's beautiful because, or something like that
7. if you know something from her childhood or growing up that she still absolutely loves and do anything for like a book or a doll or something simple, surprise her with it.
8.when you spend time together and you go out on the town or to the movies or out to eat or jsut to hang out or around the house take pictures and save like a movie ticket, or a decorated napkin from a restruant, or a flower from the park, or something small from something you did every week and combine them all into a scrapbook for her either weekly or monthly and give it to her randomly
9. if your good with words, keep a journal and write a poem for her everyday or once a week about a different part of her body you think is beautiful that she may be self-conscious about and surprise her with either the whole diary or just the poem you wrote for that week or day.
10. when she's really stressed, or just to give her time to relax, run her a nice bubble bath with lots of bubbles and aroma therapy candles and afterwards give her a nice massage with an oil that compliments her bath water.
2006-12-30 02:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by kaiyas_mom07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't exactly have any suggestions as such, but when you do something nice for her each day, make the next one bigger than the last so she wont be disapointed, if that makes any sence.
So lets say on the first day you could write a love letter, then the next you could give her a bracelet, then the next day you take her out for an expensive meal, then the next day take her out for the day at a spa etc..
obviously you have bare in mind on how much money your willing to spend but those are just some ideas
2006-12-30 02:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think like me! I am an overly affectionate person and I tell my loved ones I love them at least once a day. Action speaks louder than words though, so I do try to go out of my way and SHOW them I love them as well. One year for Valentine's Day, I bought a bouquet of red balloons, tied it to his car door handle with a banner on the windshield that said "I love You, BOB!" He was a truck driver and when he returned to go home, he was delighted. I also include little notes in his lunches, his pockets and dresser drawers with Hershey Kisses. I also planned and hosted a "Surprise" b-day party which really did surprise him. I do similar things for all of my loved ones. Life is short and no one is promised tomorrow. Instead of telling someone you love them....Show them, not with big expensive gifts.....but with little things. "Little things mean a lot."
2006-12-30 02:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1.) I leave love notes or cards in the bathroom on the vanity for him to find in the morning when he is getting ready for work.
(2.) I've put sexy panties in his vehicle with a note telling him what I plan to do to him later that night.
(3.) A full day of golf with his friends.
(4.) Unexpected foot rubs & neck rubs.
(5.) Cook his favorite foods without being ask to.
2006-12-30 03:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by southern_bellechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 nice things that i've done for my partner?, well i must say that i did a lot of things such as:
1.send her red flowers every week(red means passion).
2.do chores with her such as cleaning the entire apartment or cooking(doing this gets you closer to her)
3.accept her bad habits if she has any.
4.listen to what she has to say even if it is boring( just kidding)
5.and the most important of them all, tell her that you love her and she has your support 100% no matter what.
2006-12-30 02:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by bravo20212000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you one thing I did yesterday.
It was our 3rd anniversary and he worked super late wrapping up the end of the year stuff at his office. Something went terribly wrong because when he came home he was all stressed out and tired. We sat down to a dinner that I'd made and he broke out in tears and excused himself the bedroom. I realized he was exhausted and stretched beyond himself, so I went in there, held him and rubbed his back until went to sleep.
Not exactly what I had in mind for our anniversary but he WILL be making it up to me tonight! ;)
2006-12-30 02:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- write them love letters once in a while
2- send them flowers for a girl or watch a game with them for a boy
3- treat them to a movie or dinner they would like
4- sneak a kiss everyday
5- give them an all nighter
2006-12-30 02:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by awhisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakfast in bed
Smoothies on my way home from work
Sex in the shower
Baked her favorite cookies
Came home a day early from a business trip
2006-12-30 03:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook for them is nice, start giving a neck massage without them asking. compliment them randomly. drive to a flower shop with them and pick out a flower in front of her that reminds you of her, watch a sad bastard movie she would like:)
2006-12-30 02:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by ikeboywonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes kind
hes sexy
he works really hard
hes got a nice bum
and i love him
but thats what i think of mine
2006-12-30 02:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋