i met my bloke 5 years ago he was in a relationship we had an affair for 9 months he wasnt ready 2 leave so we split we got back together again 8 months ago but he has recently told his ex(the mother of his children) that we are together since then whenever we make plans 2 spend time together she calls him and wants him to do sumthing with his children so our plans go out the window but when i talk to him about it he just says there my children and suddenly i cant argue with that am i just being paranoid sumtimes i feel like she is doing it on purpose as sum sort of revenge for having an affair with him all those years ago his 36 and im 23 there are many issues between us but this is the main one plz help i love him loadz and dont want to lose him
2006-12-30 02:10:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not a popular question is it ? move on and let the kids have their dad back.
2006-12-31 12:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew he was in a relationship and that he had children so you will just have to put up with it. I'm assumung that your partner does not actually tell his ex when you you have plans to do something so she cannot be doing it deliberately. (if he does then he is an idiot as well as a cheat). He certainly should be doing things with his children, including having them every other weekend and for a full week at least 4 times a year - anything less he isn't much of a father . So learn to live with it.
2007-01-01 12:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋