things every now and again go missing also you go to use something ie makeup body spray etc and it has all been used up very annoying) they have their own bathroom and both earn very good money plus they get E M A for attending college.
2006-12-30 02:06:37 · 41 answers · asked by flybnite2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no, its your private space not theirs hunni
2006-12-30 02:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO you are not wrong. I am the only female in my home (4 sons 8 -18) and we have 3 bathrooms so why am I sharing a bathroom with them?? WELL before January is over I am making the bathroom across from my bedroom EXCLUSIVELY MINES. I am even putting a lock on it. They have 2 other bathrooms they can and WILL use but I will have my own lil private bathroom for myself and I dont care how they feel about it. As long as a bathroom is available for your kids..YOU ARE NOT WRONG....and neither am I.
2006-12-30 02:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong at all coz everyone deserve their privacy. I'm 16 and if I want to use my mums stuff I ask from her and put them back when I finish with them and she's got no problem with that. But l got a prob with my 12yr old bro coz he's always sneaking into my room without my permission- esp if l'm not there and he doesn't just sneak in to look, but he'll be going through my stuff. l won't notice till l need something then l find out he's got the thing l'm looking for (DVD's and my perfumes- ha ha ha!) SO ANNOYING.
He even sprays my mum's perfumes sometimes if he's send to go and take something upstairs.
2006-12-30 04:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by chicho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i might look into why the showering room flooded interior the 1st place - exchange into it your fault (a stopped up bathroom b/c of too plenty tp, did you go away the water working, and so on. or exchange into it as a results of a issue with the plumbing or furnishings)? the reason of it is that if the flooding exchange right into a results of a issue with the furnishings, and so on. then it may be the owner's accountability on account that he's had to maintain the premises in a livable condition. If there exchange right into a issue with the plumbing and so on. did you ever touch him approximately such? that would help concerns. If the flooding exchange into your fault verify the great container merchants like domicile Depot or Lowes - they deploy carpet for as low as $2/sqft. Air drying will oftentimes no longer artwork except you may get air to flow below the carpeting (meaning lifting the carpeting up). even if if, the padding is especially much actually ruined. You hazard mildew and mould subject concerns to boot.
2016-12-31 07:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by gerda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...with small children (such as my 5 year old) I try to teach about sharing. In a way its kind of like: Whats the big deal? HOWEVER it is really annoying when an almost adult person is using up your products and in a sense invading your space.
I grew up with 2 sisters and as mentioned above now have a 5 year old girl. We all have been the offender and the offende to product usage. Its just kind of one of those things that you grow out of. I think maybe your girls just missed that dock. Talk to them about it and just explain to them that they have their own bathroom and are old enough to procure their own toiletries. This hopefully should be enough.
2006-12-30 02:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. They are the kids. You are allowed to go anywhere and look through everything. They are not. Get a key type lock for the doors tat you don't want them going into.
If your kids do not like this arrangement, introduce them to the front door. Obviously, you do not need to be mean spirited about it, but a firm and clear message should be sent.
2006-12-30 02:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by know_it_all_NOT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually, you are not even close to wrong. it sounds like they cant be trusted to just go in. My parents did the same to me until i left, and would still do it today. If they make their own money, have their own bathroom, they should use their own resources.
2006-12-30 02:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by young grown man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, if things are disappearing, you have another problem: Your children are thieves.
Just 'cause they're stealing from family doesn't mean they aren't stealing.
So: Yes, you should deny access to this room from your children and
(more importantly) let them know WHY you are doing this.
You are their parents - and that means you are responsible for doing
your level best to bring them up to be honest women.
Really - it may seem annoying to you, but stealing is stealing. Put your
foot down extremely hard.
2006-12-30 02:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, especially if they have their own bathroom. When I was younger I used my mother's make-up and hairspray, that is likely what they are doing as well. No worries, I wouldn't get all bent outta shape about it. I'm sure they know whay you have told them they can no longer use it.
2006-12-30 02:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , not if there taking your stuff. They have there own bathroom and bedroom. tell them to use it. They know better at 17 and 18.
2006-12-30 02:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't want to say wrong but there are other ways to approach it. I think stopping them from accessing the bedroom is excessive. Just let them know that you don't appreciate them using up all of your things and tell them to ask for permission. They are young adults and I think you would get better results if you treat them as such.
2006-12-30 02:09:52 · answer #11 · answered by FSUgurl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋