I was suppose to go to my best friends house for Christmas dinner but didn't make it because I was sick. She had a lot of other people invited that didn't show and I know she is really upset. I was really sick and couldn' t even have Christmas wtih my Grandkid until the day after. I've called and emailed her but she has not responded. What should I do?
2006-12-30 02:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by DeDe Dina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YOU DID CALL BEFORE THE DINNER...didn't you??? It is only "good manners"...and common courtesy!!!
You simply say : "I'm sorry!"
When she gets over the "hurt" and betrayal she is feeling right now (and she WILL!) she will come around!!!
If she is your "best friend" then you should have a close enough bond to know you that you would have been there for her if you could have.
I wouldn't worry too much right now...but by TOMORROW...
You may try going OVER to her house and seeing her IN PERSON... before the NEW YEAR begins... and let her know you apologize...and that you know you let her down and that you know she must feel very disappointed and hurt after all her hard work and effort she feels was "in vain" but that you are there NOW...an want to start the new year off right....with a close friend...HER!!!
Good luck...if she cares about you like you care about her.... this will all work out!!!
Happy New year!!!!
2006-12-30 02:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're in a tricky challenge. Are you medically educated? If not, you shouldn't %. her up. Your neighbor change into sensible to call an ambulance. it truly is a sad and troublesome component. you should possibly call her physician perhaps bypass such as her and get suggestion from the physician as to the position to reveal. also please do not go away the door open-who's conscious who'll walk in. anyhow, call social amenities, AARP, your community well being middle, senior citizen communities, yet i might want to commence such as her physician. i'm sorry to assert, she might want to desire a nurses help at abode i do not understand the quantity of her challenge to understand if she needs to be in Assisted residing. strong success to Ll of you
2016-12-01 08:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you called her before the dinner to let her know you would not be attending because you were ill. If not (shame on you) If you did let her know in advance I would not do anything. You can not force her to respond so dont go out your way to do so. She will have to get over it and move on....and so should you.
2006-12-30 02:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An apology and cute little lovable gift will always pull at the heart strings of a friend even if they are upset with you.
Even MORE fun would be to pick her up... take her to the local pet store and hold puppies and kittens while you apologize. : ) Then take her to lunch !!
2006-12-30 03:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u were sick and that u are really sorry and she should hopefully understand.
2006-12-30 02:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by hopeybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋