Anyone can help me with Binding Spells?

Question

Im a guy. And I just want to strengthen the bond and love between me and my boyfriend.

Anyone willing to share their binding spells with me?

Help is definately appreciated. Many many thanks!

Well, I know it sounds evil and stuffs, but i do no think its tat bd to have someone i love to be more closer together. And since i am prepared to take the responsibities, i think my love for him is greater than anyone can ever imagine.

Please someone, just help me out here...

Answer 1

Sweetie, don't let the idiots get to you.. their lack of respect gives you an idea of what kind of people they are..

Binding spells really shouldn't be used for this purpose. You don't want to manipulate your boyfriend in that way.
There are some great spells that do not require any binding to strengthen love in a relationship.
While you really should create it yourself (and please get your partner's permission first), I'll give you a small ritual here that might help spark your own creativity:

Strengthening a Love Bond Spell by Jenna Tigerheart
To strengthen your bond with your significant other, use a red wine (or other red beverage) and one wine glass. Pour the wine. Repeat the following words three times while looking your partner in the eyes. First, your partner says the line and drinks, and then passes the glass to you to repeat the line and drinks. Repeat the lines at least three times each.

I drink to my love
And my love drinks to me.
Let the bonds of love keep us through all things,
Through good times and hard times, eternally.

Answer 2

You really don't want a spell. It's sweet that you want to strengthen the bond, but binding spells are mostly used to bind someone's power (for example: a power that would hurt someone else). They are not used to bind one person to another. Any magic comes with the rule of three: what you send out comes back to you three times. In other words, your boyfriend has free will. If you try a love spell against his will, it will backfire on you and you could lose him. Good old-fashioned magic and romance are what you need here. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with your desire, provided that your boyfriend is aware of your spell and approves of it, prior to the casting. Consensual love spells are very meaningful and loving. Good luck, and I hope either of these help.

**Spell to Bind Lovers**
To bind two lover together forever, cut two lengths of rope, the exact height of you and your lover. Tie together at three places, saying each time:

“(Name) and I pledge ourselves to each other in love,
forsaking all others, now and always.”

Sprinkle with salt water and hold in the incense smoke. Place the ropes under your bed.

**Spell to Draw Two Lovers Closer Together**
Take two pink petals from a rose. Write on each the name of each lover. Take an apple, and slice it through, so that you can clearly see the five pointed pentagram of the seed capsules. Take the two petals and putting them together, place them on the bottom half of the apple. Place the top half of the apple on to the petals so that the apple is whole again. Now tie a red cord first one way across the apple binding the two halves together saying:

“I bind this man to this woman until the Goddess deems otherwise.”

Now tie a green cord ninety degrees from the red cord and say:

“I bind this woman to this man until the Goddess deems otherwise.”

Now place the apple in a dry cupboard, where it won’t be disturbed such as a wardrobe or something similar. Each full Moon, bring the apple out and place in the full rays of the Moon for at least an hour, then put the apple back where you had put it first.

(Addendum - Sweetie, do NOT listen ot the foolish people saying that love spells usually end in rapes, stalking, etc. That's ridiculous. The goddess knows your heart and isn't going to unleash Jack the Ripper on you for some real or imagined flaw in your spell. As long as you heart is in the right place, magic can never hurt you. Anyone who thinks otherwise has been watching too much "Charmed" ;)

Answer 4

For binding loving people:

Do your best to be kind
Do your best to be considerate
Try to share both your joy and your pain
When you can give, do
When you must take, do so with humility
Love him
Accept his Love

No witch of conscience would ever give someone they do not know a binding spell, or any spell for that matter without knowing much more than you are telling.

Answer 5

Binding is used more towards keeping you out of harms way. If you dont know anything about binding you should not mess with it. Also it is very bad to do any type of "love" spell. Your messing with a persons free will and it can come back to you three folds. I suggest you enjoy the time together, and leave magick out of it.

Answer 6

I would advise against a binding. Bindings are for enemies and spells (binding a spell). Instead, just make poppets of yourselves. You make yours and he makes his. Then place the two dolls in a basket together with other cloths and flowers and anything else you like. Consecrate it and say a prayer over it. That should be harmless enough.

Blessed be.

Answer 7

Binding spells are generally used to bind someones power to keep them from harming others or themself
Example:
http://www.angelfire.com/realm2/amethystbt/spellbinding.html

I think you are looking for a different spell, try here:
http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/spells/commitment-spell.htm

Personally, I feel that love spells are too dangerous, you can never control the outcome. Think of stalkers, rapist, over obsessed lover, and more ........Be careful.

Answer 8

You're, in particular, asking for the lovespell. In truth, Binding Spells are not about love and commitment. They're about submission. Examples: Binding a criminal to stop committing crimes; Binding a follower to be utmost loyal; Binding a spirit to an object (very dangerous); Binding a daemon from ever harming you (even more dangerous); or using a lovespell to bind your lover's heart to yours forever (or for a particular time period). You have to understand, though, that the lovespell was originally designed to be an alternative for aiding Wiccan lovelife. (In particular, the lovelife of insecure or miserably old Wiccans). The usually attractive and confident Wiccan will often rely on the "natural flow" for a healthy lovelife. If that fails (hey, they're human too y'know...), they use the lovespell. You might like to give the "natural flow" its chance and let your lover's love and commitment be his bond without relying on the lovespell (unless you're insecure or miserably old ).

Answer 9

HI.....

I certainly do understand your desire for a Binding Spell, but please understand that what you are asking for is to control your Boyfriend and basically rob him of his free will.

Binding Spells really should only be used when someone wants to stop a wrong/bad behavior (i.e. protection from someone who can/will cause bodily harm, destructive behavior, etc.).

You should use "mundane" (ways without magick) ways to strengthen your love between yourself and you Boyfriend.

Since you both are already a couple, you do already share this bond with each other. Loving kindness, appreciation for each other, consideration for each other, etc. - these are, in themselves, "binding spells" which do not infringe upon anyone's free will.

If you'd like to learn about Wicca (Magick) in order to enrich your life (without infringing on anyone's free will), please feel free to contact me by clicking on my screen name and sending me an e-mail message. I'll be more than happy to help you in your studies of Wicca (Magick).

Bright Blessings and Continued Love.

Answer 10

Biding spells are never suppose to be used in the manner of self- fulfillment. And a binding spell is only suppose to be used to keep away evil spirits or to keep evil from going anywhere else to harm others. Where do some of you ladies and gents come up with some of these stupid idea's. and if you need a spell to hold on to a boy or girlfriend that relationship is doomed to fail anyway..... If you are going to deal with with something please make sure that you know something about what you are dealing with.......... I really would like to know who came up with the idea that binding spells are suppose to be used on their fellow human beings. For whom ever is was they need to be slapped out of their state of silliness............... It no wonder this world is so screwed.......................................