I been hitting on this girl for three years now, I have made good friends with her and some of her friends, I have asked her out many times, but shut me down most of the time, and the time we did was mostly as a friends only, I just though she was playing hard to get and that I wasn't playing my cards right. She is hot but i have never seen talk to guys, so now I'm nervous to ask her is she is lesbian, my hopes would be crushed and she leaves high school this year( I'm a year younger than her) I don't want to lose her as a friend either, What should I do?
2006-12-30 01:24:14 · 13 answers · asked by harold m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She might be a girl with a little something extra.
2006-12-30 01:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a friend are you?????
Making assumptions about someone without knowing the truth..
That attitude will get you nowhere in life.
She has the right to choose about everything in life.
You are not with her 24-7, why would you even consider knowing who she is inside....
You are very shallow, when it comes to being a friend. You job is to have her back when someone criticizes her, not spout out speculations because she doesn't want to be with you.
What makes you so special?????
You are a year younger, you have been told no by her how many times...... maybe you just don't get it...
You are lucky she is still a friend.
You are showing yourself as compulsive, immature, judgmental, pushy and you don't take no for an answer...
Why would she or anyone else consider you for a date???
Is this not becoming clear for you.......read the last paragraph again.........
Grow up bud, don't be so critical, the girl is not interested, you are not the be all end all.....Give it up....
2006-12-30 01:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is a lesbian, or maybe she knows that relationships in highschool are not important!!!!! they usually don't last and take up time and attention that should be focused on school and extra activities to pave a strong road for your future.
as for the friendship, i see no reason why you would not remain friends with her after she graduates highschool.
if you want to try and date her then just approach her honestly and let her know you would like to date her and that you like her a lot. if she tells you she is a lesbian, then at least it is nothing personal on you--just that you are a guy, and move on.
2006-12-30 01:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but unless she wants to tell you its no business of yours. She accepts you as a friend and as you say has turned down the passes you have made for her so you will just have to leave it at that. She may be a lesbian or may just not fancy you. Whatever be a true friend, enjoy her company as a friend but turn your dating attentions to other girls.
2006-12-31 22:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think like that..
maybe she is too shy to talk with the boys..
try to get her...take her to a romantic scene..tell her that you have a crush on her..
if she rejects you..ask her why..and keep contact as a friend..
if she accepts you..then that means she's not a lesbian..and there you have her
2006-12-30 02:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by bzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stalking the poor girl. Whether she's a lesbian or not is irrelevant. She's made her position on dating you crystal clear, and now it's time to step up and be a man about it... move on.
2006-12-30 01:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont listen 2 the dumbass doclakewhatever his name is he is gay anyway. just talk 2 her on how u feel and honest respond will be given 2 u
2006-12-31 07:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by kheno64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said that you are a grade lower than her. I am sure she wants some one older than and in college if she is a senior. I know i want some one older....
2006-12-30 02:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by A.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you ask your lesbian question tomorrow, today, Saddam's hanging prevails?
2006-12-30 01:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋