i got drunk once and my freind wes also pissed so we just started kissing and stuff but we said we'd never tell anyone else about it. im a bit confused about what to do. should i just forget about it?
2006-12-30 00:07:31 · 34 answers · asked by hotchocolate 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am wondering if the secret to kiss another man is getting buzzed together with him . . . I'll try that.
Did you like it? Would you do that again? (maybe as sober) if your answer is REALLY no, then, yes, just forget about it and go on with your life.
Alcohol an drugs tend to remove our inhibitions, and we do things we wouldn't do sober. If you still have the urge to 'experiment' when you're sober, then you might be gay.
But if you don't experiment, how will you ever learn more about your self?
2006-12-30 01:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter whether you were drunk or not. in the back of your mind you have always had that curiosity. every girl has at least once in their life. if your still a little curious as to what it would be like, then try it out. there is nothing wrong with it. if you like it, then pursue it, if you don't then drop it and forget about it. you don't have to tell anybody, that is your business only.
2006-12-30 01:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by kayla b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your actions have started a reaction which is not nor can be forgotten. The moment has presented for you and the other a uniqueness to open wide your eyes and do not deny the foolishness of your way. A lesson is present for much to be learned from. and it will not leave you until you have learned, life is not a toy though many children play. when there comes a day of growth which all will do you must be ready.
2006-12-30 00:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? No. Forget about it? Yes. The lesson here is don't blame alcohol for less inhibited behavior, unless that was your real intention. If you are closeting yourself and it takes getting drunk to do what you really want to do, IE kiss girls, then you need to explore that.
2006-12-30 01:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called experimenting 4 a reason, of course there's nothing wrong with it & it's your business, your body, & your mind which your entitled 2 explore with. Being close minded 2 new things only allows ignorance in so dont 2nd guess yourself. If you liked it, you liked it. If you didnt, it was a bad experiment. But thats your choice 2make & certainly not a right or wrong 1 either way
2006-12-30 00:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with this at all. In fact you would be amazed at how many girls and guys experiment like this.
The confusion you feel about this may be that you have a desire to perhaps experiment some more. In anycase, it's not a big problem you should be concerned with. Doesn't mean your gay or lesbian, it's a natural human desire to experiment.
2006-12-30 02:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in no position to say anything about this, as I am not female, however I hope this helps:
Don't breach the trust you have with your Friend and don't tell anyone about it, these things always get into the wrong hands. Pluck up the courage and ask her about it, she will probably just shrug it off. If you enjoyed it persistent! She will probably be asking herself the same questions as you are, just be patient with her as she may not be so fourth coming with her feelings as you.
Hope this helps and good luck!
2006-12-30 00:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Burpy Pete 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong or harmful to experiment.
However, next time (if there is going to be one) don't get drunk out of your brains. If you enjoy it, go with it.
Otherwise, just regard it as a delightful experience that you don't have to share with anybody, and move on.
2006-12-30 00:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it depends. did you enjoy it? that is the first question. if you liked it, then go for it. you dont have to be ashamed of experimenting...thus why its called experimenting. youre seeing what you like. if you did it as a dare, or if it resulted purely because you were drunk, and you didnt enjoy it or dont care to do it again..you dont need to tell anyone...that is your business and yours alone...you can forget about it if you so choose.
2006-12-30 00:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any feeling for her or about what happened then just take as an experience and move on. There's nothing wrong with experimenting most of us have done it, it's how we discover who we are.
2006-12-30 04:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋