Yet, they stay with the guy, even though they say they wish that they could find a really nice guy???? Why do they stay with losers who treat them like garbage???
2006-12-29 23:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by Q&A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because girls like being treated like trash. Next time you see a girl you like, try spitting on her.
2006-12-29 23:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes...
+ Low self-esteem.
+ Nice guys avoid her. Maybe she has a past they don't like...
+ He gives her some payoff, either enabling her not to deal with her pain, etc. or attention and companionship she so desperately needs from men.
I have to add that the nice guys often do not make themselves visible, so the alternative might be another bad guy, so maybe she figures the one she is with is not so bad as the one she's looking at.
2006-12-30 08:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ironic. Generally most girls want an assertive guy. I hate to say this but most nice guys dont when to stand up to a girl especially if she's hot. However, bad boys and jerks are usually confident when it comes to girls. Some girls would rather be with a guy that stands up to her and treats like trash, then to be with a nice guy that will do everything they say. Girls dont want a nice guy they want a good guy.
2006-12-30 07:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by jason j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've wondered the same thing as I have a friend who would rather be with losers who treat her like crap than a nice guy. She meets a nice guy & she'll say "Oh, he's just too nice. I like a man with a bit of an edge.."
Go figure.
2006-12-30 07:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by funkychick 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i feel that a majority of the time, the trashy guys end up being the very attractive or appealing ones. perhaps knowing that she is with a goodlooking man intimidates the woman and, in wanting to "keep" the man, she trades in her self respect and dignity in exchange for jealous onlookers and attention. when you "have" something so desirable, the mind tries to play tricks by creating good qualities that a person, in reality, does not have.
this is just one of the reasons, maybe.
2006-12-30 07:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Devotion of a woman to her man is admirable.
But SOMETIMES it's a fault, rather than a quality.
The perceived penalty of 'leaving' out-weights the perception of 'staying', - typically.
2006-12-30 07:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by MK6 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because women just are like that. don't know what the reason is but niceness bores me to death. so there you go. but i don't mean that you should be a total asshole to us cuz we'll just kick you in the balls then.
2006-12-30 07:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess coz its difficult to let go off someone u really care bout.
another reason..they're scared of being alone. being single after you've been in a relationship is tough.(not that i support this behaviour,though)
2006-12-30 07:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Low self esteem, fear of being alone, they don't believe they are good enough for anyone else................
2006-12-30 10:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS the problem. LOW SELF ESTEEM.
2006-12-30 07:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋