My boyfriend's past relationship was with a married women. This bothers me. Do you think I have a right to be?

Answer 1

not really she's just as much an ex just like anyother girlfriend he has had.

Answer 2

There r always 2 sides to a story;how can u categorize people? U DON'T KNOW WHO THEY R.Sometimes people can B w/ someone 4 10 years & not know them.Wake up!!!!!!!!!.People change & I still believe & trust in that flickering spirit of life.There r still very honest ,noble,loving people out there & u can't judge each situation the same.Your right about adultery in the sense that it is wrong.I knew a woman who has dedicated her life to the Church.Her husband deserted her .& seven years she waited 4 him.I would'nt have done that but she believed in him .She loved him like no other.He moved on while she waited .I guess the piece of paper said they were still married so put this into perspective,was that a marriage? After the court papers were issued she then felt she was divorced.I really wonder today at what point did they actually become divorced in Gods eyes.People r different.What would this world b like if we were all the same?U don't know what goes on behind closed doors especially when they love each other or care 4 each other.Thier relationship could have been like no other,how r u to know? people can change 4 the better.Everyone makes mistakes but I DON'T SEE WHERE LOVE IS A MISTAKE because there r different kinds.I guess thats where u have to decide how much u care or love this person.

Answer 3

If you are in a relationship and there is only one thing that is trust. His past should be left behind and carry on the present. Once the past lingers in there is bound to be hiccups and finally separation. You may accept one thing that almost everyone would have had an affair before and thus how many times would you think of leaving a person. May be your bf realized the mistake of getting involved with a married lady.

Enjoy the present.

Answer 4

It suggests that at the time he was having this relationship he did not have much concern for the feelings of others (although was this woman separated from her husband or pretending to still love him? were children involved? if they were in the process of divorce then i don't think it's not wrong, only if there was deception involved). If this bothers you then you can't sweep your feelings away. Have a talk. Maybe he regrets what he's done. If he seems proud of having an affair and can't see anything wrong with it (if deception was involved), this might spell problems.

Answer 5

yes u definitly have a right to be bothered it shows hed go with married women talk to him tell him u feel abit insercure about it then leave it in the past if he actlys strange out of charecter then do something x good luck

Answer 6

concentrate on the relationship you have with him now , does his behaviour indicate that there are any problems within the relationship. if the answer is no and you have a good relationship why should you let something which is past put a question on your current relationship. if it past it is finished a part of his past leave it there or you will jeopardise what you have now!

Answer 7

Don't judge people from their past mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. And just because they cheated on someone else doesn't mean they will cheat on you. Every relationship is different. Good Luck.

Answer 8

We all suffer from failed relationships - and learn from them.

Some - like the married woman - are sadly still in them.

So don't let it bother you!

Celebrate the fact that you still have a choice, unlike his ex.

Answer 9

No. Why should it bother you?
The fact he was with a married woman might mean he knows a thing or two in bed..enjoy it!

Answer 10

You might be concerned, but he could have learned from the mistake and realized he should never go there again. It depends on where he is in his life now.

Answer 11

The only thing you need to be bothered with is if he cheats on you.