Theres this girl and her bunch of that i enjoy going out with. She and her friends had been hinting me to get into a relationship which her all these while, but i choose to ignore it and just smile at them. I really like the companionship of this bunch of people, i even tried telling myself to start to like her but eveytime i look at her i get disgusted and annoyed. I dont know why, but shes a pretty good person but i really cant love her. But on the other hand if i fail to do so, i might not be able to hang out with that bunch anymore.
She recently told me to consider about going into a relationship with her, i haven answered her. I cannot bring myself to like her but i dont want to hurt her or leave that bunch of people either. What should i do?
2006-12-29 22:43:00 · 8 answers · asked by youtypetooslow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that, or tell someone you trust from the group.
...or get a girl friend, or make another girl like you (the girl you might actually like)...then it won't be your fault.
2006-12-29 22:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are freaking out to much, you don't have to love someone to hang out with them. Get to know her and them and just treat them like friends. Maintain your integrity and tell the truth. Well you can leave the part out about being disgusted and annoyed. Tell em you don't think of her that way.
2006-12-29 22:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her the truth, that you do not like her. You can't force yourself to like someone. Explain to her how you feel, she should understand. And it doesn't mean you can't hang out with those people anymore. They are still your friends, or unless they don't think you are their friend, wich i don't think is the case. So good luck anyway :D
2006-12-29 22:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by AF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them all or her the truth. You're just not ready for a relationship with her or anyone else. Everyone will understand, or should understand. IF they don't, there'll be other friends.
2006-12-29 22:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what's right - tell her the truth. Tell her what you feel, what you want, and don't want. And tell your "bunch" the truth as well.
It's called integrity. Either that, or you're putty in someone else's hands.
2006-12-29 22:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ricardo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and get in d relationship just 4 the sake of tht bunch, pretend tht u luv her but don't ever let her know it or ney1 else in the bunch, keep it 2 urself
2006-12-29 22:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be with some one you don't want to be with. These people should respect that decision,if they can't, then they aren't worth hanging out with.
2006-12-29 22:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the whole truth
2006-12-29 23:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋