Why is it that I cant seem to attract descent (gorgeous) girls. Im a great guy, cute looks, tidy and neat with manners and love to have fun.BUT NO PROGRESS WITH FEMALES!
Im sexually frustrated and hate it.
Any comments or suggestions? (by male or female)
2006-12-29 21:07:22 · 19 answers · asked by Avey Khali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well girls don't like jerks....
2006-12-29 21:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the attitude. It also depends on your version of (decent gorgeous girls). If you are looking for the Victoria's secret type or those in magazines or TV, you are never going to get a girl with that ideal. I could go on about this topic, but I am going to just state this simple idea. Evaluate your idea of a decent gorgeous girl and what your motive is. Why would they want to choose you? what do you have to offer or what do you look like?
You may want to just be your self and display your qualities as a daily habit no matter who is around you, and you may want to just be happy with who you are and what you have to offer to a potential friend. take the desperation out of the equation and you may find yourself the woman you've been fantasizing about, Never forget the manners, and the personal hygiene and appearance. If you are such a great guy, don't worry about getting a woman, worry about having fun and being yourself.
If you are it, they will come.
2006-12-29 21:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by ammostlyamused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to be a bit more confident maybe with the ladies. Don't try chat up lines, they don't work. If your in a club or pub ask a girl if you could buy her a drink, always maintain eye contact. Talk about yourself but keep her in the loop and ask her about herself. If all is still going gud ask her to dance. You get the idea now
2007-01-02 06:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by manc1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your attitude says everything about your lack of success with girls. They don't exist to relieve your sexual frustration. I suggest you:
a) Grow up
b) Understand woman are intelligent and therefore repelled by an attitude like yours
c) Accept that despite your opinion of yourself something about your personality needs to change because apparently you're just not attractive (and it's not only about looks).
2006-12-29 21:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No surprises there, when you are always on your computer trying to get some cheap points from yahoo answers, go out and talk to them, a large percentage of women out there are being recycled by a small percentage of bold men, if you what you say you are, you will have no problem getting the right person or your fair share of the wrong ones. out you go boy, log off now!
2006-12-29 21:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Patriot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your idea of a decent gorgeous girl isn't what's around. Maybe your physical expectations of a women are a little to high ? Don't look for a gorgeous girl, look for a girl who responds to you.
2006-12-29 21:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me your'e not assertive enough in real life! It's easy to be confident on line ...maybe a bit more difficult in public. You need to smile and laugh a lot and don't be overly confident or too cheesy!
Good luckx
2006-12-29 21:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on percentages, if you ask 1 girl out and she says no don't stop there.
If you ask 50 girls out at least 1 will say yes.
Unless you are Hippocrocapig then pack it in now.
2006-12-29 21:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, waaaaiiiiiit a minute..."decent?" Are you saying that less than aesthetically pleasing women are not "decent"? Don't sound like you're talking about the whole package to me, buddy...
2006-12-29 21:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Detroit Diva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard ?
or maybe girls nowadays are attracted more to assholes and see you as a brother or they love you just a friend (don't you just hate when you get this lame excuse)...
2006-12-30 14:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Psycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls nowadays like guys who got money or who look like they have before really gettin to know guys so just try to change your style a bit and dont be afraid to talk to girls that you might think is outta your league. if that dont work HEAD FOR DA STRIP JOINTZ.
2006-12-29 21:22:55 · answer #11 · answered by $ugar$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋