have been dating this guy who has a 21 month old baby girl, I did not know that he had a child and only found out the day that we met when his friend accidentally told me i did not let this put me down in dating him even though he comes with a bit off luggage or so i thought ,His ex girlfriend and mother of his baby girl is a pshyco she broke his door off when i recently visited him i had to hide away from her which i found extremely funny at the time he does not want her to know about me because she told him if he begins dating other girls that she will move to another state and prevent him from seeing his daughter in some way i cant stop but feel this is how she has hold on him i cant stop to worry that she will interfere with our relationship it makes me mad because she calls me a mere fling which is not true,it makes me sad because every time im with him she has to call up or even text him always spoiling special moments what should i do i dnt want to lose him but i cant take it
2006-12-29 21:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by emoangel5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his child is a "luggage", the mother of his child is a "pshyco"... I wonder how long it is going to take him to kick your a** ot of his life for good.
2006-12-29 21:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some legal advice about his visitation rights, she has no right to use their child as emotional blackmail. She will continue using this controlling behaviour until he stands up to her. Will she really move to another state away from her family etc? It would seem there are unresolved issues between them and if you intend to stick around he needs to resolve the situation with her and stop her from causing problems in your relationship.
2006-12-30 05:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care what she thinks. Unfortunatly right now she is baggage attached to the relationship. If you really can't deal you'll have to end it, otherwise, hang in there and be the bigger person. She'll look like the psycho she is. Good luck!
2006-12-30 05:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women gravitate towards drama or always find themselves in dramatic situations. Do not be one of these women. Move On.
Let this dude deal with his own problems (he caused 100% of them for himself)
2006-12-30 05:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by extraordinareality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she spoil your relationship with this guy? You HAVE no relationship with him. Come on, he has to hide you??? This is beyond pathetic. Move on already, this guy has too much "baggage".
2006-12-30 05:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell trouble.
2006-12-30 05:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, you can do so much better than that guy.
2006-12-30 05:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dreyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋