I have been married for three years now. We have grown apart. At the moment I'm not sure I want to get divorced. Is it ok if I move away for 6 months or a year and still stay married. We do not have children.
2006-12-29 18:50:56 · 6 answers · asked by brenda29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Before you decide to leave the relationship for ahwile I would suggest that you try to get some counseling together and try that first. I think at this point, leaving for 6 months or a year is going to make you grow even further apart. You should stay and get some help in working things out. Since you are so unsure right now, I think it could really make a big difference if you both got on board with working on the relationship not turning away from it.
2006-12-30 02:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be ok. Getting married is a big step in life. Being able to jsut let go is really hard. leaving and coming back with a clear mind should help you make your decision.Make sure though that you and your hubby discuss the terms of the split. I mean you have to discuss if either of you can see other people, that sort of stuff.
2006-12-30 02:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a great healer. Give space to your spouse. Six months is sufficient time. Divorce should be the last resort. After all you got married based on some understanding and liking. Do not try to end a relationship abruptly.
2006-12-30 02:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel ya...yes move away for 6 months if you both agree,,then see how u feel after that....lifes wierd sometimes
2006-12-30 02:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to try. you didn't marry your spose becaus eyou hated them. you married then becaus eyou thought you would be together forever. just try do whatever it takes to stay together. good luck
2006-12-30 02:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it.
2006-12-30 02:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋