i need advice im suicidal?

Question

kay i cutt and i have stoped eating... everyone at my school knows from teachers to principles.... no one understands..... im not crazy im a cheerleader and im a great student..... i just need some advice..... what will happen if i dont eat and in how many days????? nedd advice thats all

Answer 1

It doesn't sound like you're happy, if you feel your suicidal & are hurting yourself.
You need to go talk to your parents & your counselor & figure out what is going on with you. You can call the suicidal crisis line & talk to some asap in your area. You can call 411 & they will give you the no.
If, you stop eating you will die.

Answer 2

The previous posters' comment is a little harsh....no to harsh...those of us that have been cutters and suicidal are not just out there "looking" for attention.....sometimes our minds go into what I call the reasoner is broken.....we can't rationalize or reason properly. Cutting was a way to release pain...emotional pain the we were feeling....not an attention getter.....I HATE the scars that I have now and there isn't a blasted thing I can do about them now... I don't cut anymore....the thought process is sometimes still there. Therapy and counseling help....if you find the right one and stick with it. Emotional pain is one of the hardest things to deal with......the harshness from the other person who posted has NO CLUE as to what you are going through and shouldn't pass judgment on to others. Even if you are a cheerleader and you are a good student....so was I....but behind the mask.....the smiles.....where countless days of abuse and horror......covered up by many years of dissociation and inner ones.....please get yourself some help....talk to someone you trust....you can make it through this.

Answer 3

If you go too long without food your stomach will begin to reject anything that you put into it. You will be so weak that you will have to quit being a cheerleader because there is no possible way for you to function running around and yelling. If worse comes to worst, you will die. You need to find out what's making you feel this way and get treated for it. You sound like you have a better life than most people; you should be happy about it.

I completely agree with Miss Krista Marie.

Answer 4

there's a rule in suicide prevention. it's called the Reserection Rule. It's based on the 3 days in which Christ was said to have been dead, and on the 3rd day, reserected. it says that if you are considering suicide, wait 3 days. By the time the three days is up, things will have started to get better. I urge you to plz follow this. believe me, i've attempted suicide before. things are never as bad as they seem when you first look at them. Nothing, and i *do* mean nothing ,is worth killing yourself over. there are ppl at places like the Boys and Girlstown National Hotline that you can call and talk to. They're great. They're non-judgemental, and they're there to help. their toll free number is 1-800-448-3000. plz call and talk to them about how you feel. you'll be glad you did. Good luck, and don't worry, things will get better!!

Answer 5

This is some counseling from an old man who could be your great grandfather. A wise philosopher once said, "The unexamined life is not worth living." If you have decided life is not worth living at your age I think maybe you haven't examined it closely enough. I am 74 and I have found life worth living although at one point in it I didn't think so and tried to kill myself. I didn't succeed luckily and that attempt lost me my wife and family for I had been on the verge of running off and leaving them and they knew it.

The upshot of the story is I examined my life very thoroughly, still do, and found many things I had done wrong and been mistaken about. One of the things I had been mistaken about was the value of my families love for me. I asked for their forgiveness, got it and although we have not remarried we have gotten on together famously. My children are all grown now and most have families of their own which is a joy to me. And I think I am a joy to them which I wouldn't have been if I had succeeded in killing myself. Everyone needs to be loved but you also have to recognize the many ways families have of loving one another. Some of this love is tough love, but love is often just in the act when done with a good will.

Answer 6

Talk to your real friends, the one that have same belief as you. If you dont have one, go find one, Its fun to make new friends and find one that is a perfect match for bestfriend. Making new friends prevent me from cutting, because they understand and they look deep inside of me. Sometimes I just go alone for a run or a walk and plan the future which helps me to dream and move on with my life without cutting. If you need something to hurt you to get rid of the pain, just say "no, I am not cutting today" and try that in the mirror. If not working, try using rubberband or pitch yourself.
I hope this help you.
<3

Answer 7

precious little girl....I feel that the ones that are supposed to have loved you the most, have let you down...this is why I seem to find that people are cutting themselves....It is like they attack you, and tell you that you are bad, but they are the ones who are the bad ones, ...and so you cut yourself to prove to them that you are sorry about being the 'bad' person they are telling you you are...is this true? Do they make you feel so bad, and you want their 'love' so bad, that you cut yourself to punish yourself to try to make them happy? and to get attention? My darling....you sound so pretty, and smart, and this is a shame to let others destroy your life...the REAL way to get attention, is to be strong, and show the world that you love you and that YOU know that you are a great person.....Please don't starve yourself like this...Don't you know that Your Father, God, loves you so much? Don't you know that Jesus died for you, that your parents can be forgiven for their behaviour? You must try to forgive them, and let the Lord into your life, and don't kill yourself or cut any more, You could get a horrible infection, or you could die if you don't eat...Please little one, you must want attention so bad, that you are punishing yourself to get it,....and when you are gone, what is going to be left?....I feel the Lord has something planned for you,...you just need to have God and Jesus in your life, and let Them show you how much They care...I am so sad for you right now, and if I was there, I would give you a hug and talk to your parents for you....Please, pray on this, and don't do anything bad to yourself again....some where some young man is waiting to make you his, and maybe get married, and have babies....Please darling, .....I am going to pray for you also xxxxx

Answer 8

Kay, I pretty much hate people like you. You're doing it for attention, it's not enough that you're a cheerleader and a 'great student' you want people to care about you. The fact of the matter is, you won't actually do anything, you'll just say it till people get tired of it and then when they realize.. it's just a hoax you'll go onto something like " I think I'm pregnant guys, I had unprotected sex with seven different boys and I don't know who the father could be" Whaam baam thank you maam, you're on Jerry Springer and your mom is crying her eyes out because what did she do wrong?

Nothing. She just has a daughter with a serious need for attention. You need to re-evaluate your life. What's important to you? What exactly do you want? Is this so called threat to your life going to get it for you? I mean you're asking for help from complete strangers.. suicide is in your title. You could be a little more subtle if you were just looking for reasons why you feel so terrible but no you're asking how long it'll take until you die?

Why don't you find yourself a nice boyfriend or something, I'm sure you'd cheat on him too, wouldn't you? Anything drama right? Did you start all this up because you didn't make varsity or something? Boo hoo how terrible. It's the cold hard truth honey.. everyone whos telling you not to do it and that they care is putting on a bigger facade than you are. I'm sorry, but I feel no sympathy.. you need to face up to the fact that your life isn't terrible it's perfectly fine. There are people who actually need help out there.


To Cassie:: I never said she was bad for cutting, I never said she was bad period. I'm just saying, she's broadcasting it all over the place. How is that not begging for attention? Where in her question is she asking for help.. to me it looks like she's asking for advice on dying. She doesn't want to die, she just wants a little spotlight and that's the source of all this "emotional pain" Giving it to her is not going to help. Because when I was her age (14) I wanted the same thing. But I grew up.

Answer 9

This is a bit of an odd answer but here are a few suggestions.

* You may just have a crappy diet.
Go to www.bragg.com and check it out.

* For your mental issues learn the skills of NLP or try out
someone like www.tonyrobbins.com

Follow this info and do what they recommend and i think you'll be ok, actually.. if you follow this stuff you will be sensational!

Take it easy!

Answer 10

If you don't eat for days at a time, your body feeds on the fat cells and you become skinney like Nichole Richie. If you are cutting your self, you need to see a doctor because he/she can get down to the bottom of why your cutting. You are probably depressed, and/or taking drugs and that causes cutting over periods of time.