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i have been cutting and i have an eating disoder

2006-12-29 18:39:56 · 21 answers · asked by theyscrewedupmylifeycanttheylive 1 in Health Other - Health

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If you asking for help call 911 or till someone, mom dad, friend whomever...Check yourself voluntarily into a hospital...Suicide is not the way to fix things. I have seen way to many and trying to tell the parents that you are unable to bring their babies back, OMG you wouldn't believe the pain you leave behind. The youngest suicide i have been on is 9, talk about heartbreaking...Get help, life can and will get better, you have to want it...You are taking the first step, admitting there is a problem is the key to fixing the problem...You opened the door, now its time to seek what you need, talk to others that have been through the same thing. You are not alone...I have a neice who was a cutter, she asked for help and is now fine, she is scared for life, but now she is living life and she is one cool girlie...Take care and talk to someone...

2006-12-29 18:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1 0

Why do you feel suicidal? Think about that and think about how it will affect your family. If it is because of your family, know that no matter what, they are your parents and they love you whether they have shown it or not. Like the first answer, if it is life threatening at this point, call 911.

Otherwise, go to a therapist or a mental health center. You can speak with social workers and they will be the ones who can give you the best advice. Get your help from them.

2006-12-29 18:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

i use to have the same problem. the best thing to do is go to the hospital and get evaluated. they will most likely put you in a hospital but i promise everything will be OK. they will put you on some meds and you will talk to a Dr.. mostlikly they will mounter your eating but it's only to help you. what i learned that helped best when i am depressed is take a old box and put things you like in it that makes you happy. pics a CD book crayons and when you get blue open it and do what id ever in it. you should really talk to someone that you are OK with knowing your problems a school consular or a teacher a friend even. you definitely need some help though go and look up a crises hot line. they are confidential and they cant do anything but give you advice. so pleas get some help. blessed be

2006-12-29 19:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by shy 4 · 0 0

PLEASE... from someone who is a suicide suvivor...TALK WITH SOMEONE,ANYONE! My brother committed suicide
'96. I was the first one to find him. Please get help, I beg. The pain and torment, that my family has been through has been a total and complete nightmare. He had a 5 yr. old son at the time, the child is now going on 16 and has grown up without his father.
Please, if not for yourself, think of those you would leave behind. They are the ones to pick up the pieces after you're long gone. There are numerous suicide hotline numbers, call one. Talk with someone you trust! God Bless you! You are worth a whole lot more than YOU think!! No matter how bad life seems suicide IS NOT the answer!

2006-12-30 07:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi!
Life is hard and there times I think EVERYONE has those thoughts.
I had a brother who decided it was to hard for him to go on in this world. You guessed it, he shot himself in the head and ended it all... for him any way.
He never even dreamed that just 24 more hours and his whole life would have taken a turn for the better...
1.)He would have gotten a better job because the company he applied for a job at called him.
2.)We were awarded an inheritance from our biological fathers death in the amount of 14,000.00 each (there are 3 of us) not a lot but enough to get the feet back on the ground.
3.)His son's wife gave birth to a beautiful baby boy.
Th list goes on and on.
What he left behind is pain so unbearable at times even I feel like I can't take it anymore. I miss him so bad!
I'm sorry I can't finish this right now.
PLEASE GET SOME HELP NOW before it is to late!
Write to me!
ANYTHING!!!!!

2006-12-29 19:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by lill 3 · 0 0

I do not know if your are seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist for your condition. If you aren't then you need to. You need to get to the source of why are you doing this. Problems aren't solved by cutting yourself or letting your health go down hill. Everyone at a time feels like they can't cope with life, but you can. Think of all those kids in Africa. They are starving and their families are poor. They are worst off then you but still fight to live. You are much better than they are. Life is a gift from God and what you make with it is your gift to God in return. Please do not give up!

2006-12-29 18:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 4 · 0 0

Please believe me. There is no reason to end your life. i know that at times thing may seem like they are to much to take but it can always get better. no matter how much it may seem like they dont care you family loves you and will be so devestated without you. i have been through the cutting phase and there are other, healthy alternatives to letting out your emotions.
now i cant speak from experience with the eating disorder but a counselor can help you. if your cuts are life threatening it is inportant to get help immedialty.
you can get through this.
please think about it before you do anything irrational

2006-12-29 19:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by girly_is_confused 1 · 0 0

ive tryed and been through all three:cutting, eating disorders, and suicide attempts. Some advice I have for you is when your mad try writing in a journal or something. It is usually something in ur life that makes u cut or try suicide avoid it or confront it or if the 'thing' is a person thats abusing you get someones help right away. i hope u get through this. email me if u have problems

-jess ♥

2006-12-29 19:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by xhes_ 3 · 0 0

Turn to God...it helped me. Also think about all those people that truley care about you. My cousin commited suicide 4 years ago, it still hurts to think about it. I would think about what it would do to your family and friends, there is no reason for a family to have to go through that. It hurts, and they will feel guilty. And the whole God thing sounds wierd, but if you have faith and talk to God, He will help you through...I promise. Please dont do something like commiting suicide. There is so much you haven't experienced yet, think of the things you would miss out on. And most of all your family, they love you! http://suicidehotlines.com/national.html

2006-12-29 18:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by chiefs_daughter1900 2 · 0 0

Look, what you're doing is bull, but it's your choice. I have been through worse than you in probably my childhood. Felonies, mental & physical traps, they way I grew up was bullshit. I've thought of suicide in my life probably more than a hundred times, but I keep tellin myself nah that ain't me. I could put an end to it all with one bullet, or keep my head up stick my chest out and handle it. Trust me whatever you're going through it's dealable. What you're doing now is going to make life suck in the future. So don't trip, laugh, do something fun, and progress with your life.

2006-12-29 19:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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