I've thought of some comments but I want to know if guys like hearing them...Here they are:
All that matters is us...and the time we spend together...I love you.
I don't care what others think about us...I only care about what we think of eachother.
I only want to love you...and I want you to love me too.
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Do you think a guy would like hearing any of that?
2006-12-29 18:39:21 · 27 answers · asked by Cecilia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has told me he loves me. He was the first one to say it.
2006-12-29 18:46:36 · update #1
Depends how long you guys have been together.. and I usually won't say those things until the guy say similar things to me first, so that I know we are on the same page.
2006-12-29 18:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy, and the level of your relationship. The big one that I have a problem with is the "I love you." It just depends on the relationship. I have no problem hearing it, when I feel that it's reciprocal. The only time it seems to make me nervous is early in the dating process. Sure there's the love at first sight situation, but make sure that he's showing the signs before you use it. I've had women tell me that on our first date. To me that means she's in a hurry to get moved in and married. Unfortunately I have only had a handful of times where I felt the same way. The "L" word, when used to early in a relationship, can be the killer. The other things you mentioned are excellent and I would think you should use those as primers, leading up the the big one.
What ever you do, don't try and corner him in bed and tell him "I love you" for the first time. In most cases you are putting him on the spot. You are making him feel obligated to say it in return. If that's the case, your chances of having an honest answer in return are slim. If you are having sex then he could just be saying that out of fear. Fear, that if he doesn't tell you the same in return, then you wont sleep with him again.
Sure, deep down, everyone wants to be loved, and hear that someone loves them. Just don't make his mind think that he is being set up. I hope this helps you.
2006-12-29 18:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy would like to hear that if he is already on the same wavelength you are on. Has he told you that he loves you? Has he told you anything similar?
We all want to be told we are loved....but I'd be cautious about trying to coax it out of someone who is reluctant.
Some guys would be flattered to hear that. Just be prepared to find out that they might not feel the same.
2006-12-29 18:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys differ in 2 types
1] the romantic ones
2] the total timepass ones
u have 2 decide what kind of a guy is yours
and then carry on with ur answer
2006-12-29 18:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by colleen d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless marriage is in the future...no. Guys are not a commitment based mammal. You already know this. Try some less binding comments that you can build upon.
Sorry...no offense.
2006-12-29 18:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by iraq51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly if the guy feels the same about you, yes he would like to hear that. If he doesn't I'm sure he would still appreciate knowing how you feel.
2006-12-29 18:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Studmufin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really. Males are action-goal oriented. How you act with him & how he feels around you matter more. Regardless of how heartfelt the emotion guys won't respond the same way. For us, talk is talk. It is not as important to us as it is to females.
2006-12-29 18:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Epinions Reviewer. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and Just say it. Hold his hand, look him in the eye and say it. Dont believe all the sex means love bullcrap. NO LOVE MEANS LOVE. Thats all you need. Sex is a bonus, but love needs to be there first, or it would just be lust. So just tell him, I love you.
2006-12-29 18:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by lawrinse2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because of the fact whilst they such as you in a relationship way, they do no longer want to pay attention which you notice them as a brother parent, because of the fact they do no longer want to image you as a sister parent, considering the undeniable fact that would merely be weird and wonderful lol.
2016-11-25 00:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I'm under the impression that things like that get on there nerves.
2006-12-29 18:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by reneevaldosta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋