Ok. i know that this may sound stupid, but im worried about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He buys me stuff without me asking and just is an amazing guy (when we arnt fighting, but who doesnt?) but lately he doesnt seem too into having sex. we used to be very physical before..but it seems to get less and less. He told me that he masturbates at leat 3-5 times a day and occasionally looks at porn. ive heard that this can lead to reduced sex drive. it makes me feel like he doesn find me attractive, but he says that hes just not in the mood to. i just dont know how to get him to stop doin that all of the time. he said that he would, but it hanst changed. its not like i need it...but every once in awhile would be nice....
2006-12-29 18:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by Traci Alise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him exactly what you just typed. Talk about how you feel unattractive, and would like to get more intimate sometimes. He's stupid if he'd rather look at porn and masturbate then have the real deal with someone he's in a relationship with. If he doesn't change after that, maybe you two aren't meant to be together, cause he obviously doesn't care about your needs. Hope everything works out for you.
2006-12-29 18:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently men feel it is their right to get bored with their women after a short time, they just can't resist "different". And it wouldn't make any difference if you tried to spice things up with lingerie or whatever, because I'm convinced that the interest YOU show is exactly what turns him off. Turn the tables on him and ignore HIM until he's sick of his own hand. Other than that, from experience it doesn't matter how good-looking you might be, it's pretty much it. Get some Viagra and slip it in his coffee.
2006-12-30 02:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he's too stupid or selfish to see what he's doing, find a guy that like sex with real people. There are plenty out there.
If it was food, would it be okay for him to eat all he likes and not offer you any?
2006-12-30 02:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical symptom of boredom. Change the routine, try something a little different.
2006-12-30 02:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Gray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's masturbating instead of making love with you? That's screwed up.
2006-12-30 02:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by onceiseenachippermunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from another female.....watch porn with him just as you want to do it. It helps.
2006-12-30 02:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by yhrw6itejrs4444444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might be a long shot, did you try asking him why!? he prefers porn over you.
2006-12-30 02:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋