How do i know she likes me?

Question

Ok well me and her have been friends for about 2 years now and we told each other we liked each other but then a few days later she says that it doesn't feel right. so then i leave it be for a little while then we get back to normal and she pics on me a lot like when we wash dishes she makes jokes about me and stuff like "gosh Sean can you just do it already jees" and we talk a good bit and shelooks at me a lot when were talking. We are both devouted christians but she does look at me a lot and stuff like that so i just need some advice. and also she isn't the touchy feely type she likes to play football and stuff and we are in the youth band together, she also doesn't like people to share there feelings like straight up.

She has also never had a boyfriend before. she's 17 by the way

Answer 1

Well, I feel she likes you but is scared and don't know how to deal with it. I would just take another chance but take it slow but don't run her off but play everything cool. but at the same time. you might just have to wait her out . she will come around but into then don;t put your self on hold and maybe you might want to try and start a relationship with someone other than her, that might be the break through you need.

Answer 2

I really hate to answer this question .But I must . She might have two ways of looking at this ,First she may have been hurt very badly in the past or knew someone special in her group or family that was hurt .So she 'd rather be friends then to take the leap of faith with you .Or she may have a question with her sexuality.If she's young she might be just growing inside , If she's in her early 20's or close she might have female feeling that don't feel right to her and she's confused about it . Being a christian doesn't mean she's straight.People find their path in life to be difficult and winding . A true christian will fight the eager to go to the dark side so to say .And finally find their way in life .Either way give her time ,don't push and stay friends and except her as she is .Love can come like a blast of lighting or a soft summers day .

Answer 3

Does she laugh at your jokes, even the dumb ones? You said she's not the touchy feely type but does she ever brush against you or touch you slightly to emphasize a point? Does she make plans to hang out in the future or initiate contact?

Answer 4

you 2 sound like you would make a cute and great pair! You need to start the conversation, gils care alot about what they say and they don't want to be known as a wanty needy chick so when u are chilling say something like i have been thinknig and i would like to be mabye a little more than a friend, then say but if you don't want ot it is fine....make sure you don't put her on the spot TO much

best of luck

Answer 5

Listen Dude! If u r sure enough that u love her then don't spoil the relationship rather give more time to her and talk about private matters and when u two are free to speak to each other about any matter,then ask her how she feels!

Answer 6

It may be her requirement what he wants from man but for this u can talk to him seriously after only seeing u ras family environment and for the future married life

Answer 7

A good roll in the hay will do a lot of good to you guys!

Answer 8

its seems to me that she has a crush on you, but she doesnt want to ruin the friendship that you two have. or it could be that she thinks that she likes u, but when u are official...its weird bc you guys are best friends. me and my guy friend were like that for a long time...so then we finally kissed..and it was weird...for me anyways...and so he still likes me but i thought that it was best to just be friends. so that is my advice.

Answer 9

Just wait for her to tell you! Don't ask. Be yourself and maybe just maybe she will tell you. If she picks on you, thats a sign that she may like you. Just wait for her, til she's ready to tell.

Answer 10

Just be forward with her. Tell her that you need to know about how she really feels.