What to say to a girl you dont know?

Question

I really need to know what to say to a girl when I see her, for instince. If im at the movies and I see a girl that looks good but I dont know her . Or if im walking down the hallway and I see a girl that I dont know but she looks good too??

Answer 1

One of the best ways to communicate, in my opinion ,is through eye contact. To look someone in the eye and smile, give a little nod, or simply say "Hi" takes some courage. I practice all the time, walking down the street, shopping for groceries, even while in my car stopped at stop signs. It's fun to see someones face light up and return a smile. Walk by that girl, look her in the eye, and say hi. The next step is up to you

Answer 2

The real trick: don't say anything. Just look for a second see if she looks back, don't stare at her but don't look away before she does (just look "a bit at her", kind of the same way you would if you were looking at a bag of popcorn and thinking about if it is worth buying).
If she looks at you for about 2.5 seconds, say "hi" and something that you are already doing, such as "I'm going to see Hitch, you can always come with me"...that way you don't look desperate it's more like saying "want to join in the fun I'm already going to be having?"
In the hall, for example, you should try and be a bit more clever: for example listen in on her conversation with her friend while you are talking to a friend and then, say, if she talks about a quirky professor, say something about the professor you think is quirky to her friend and see how she responds, then start talking to her (don't approach her first, that could look desperate). Even if her friends give a look like "what's that dork doing here?" just snap back with something like "oh yeah, what homework was I supposed to do for YOU???" in a joking voice, like you obviously weren't going to do it and are making fun of how ridiculous it is for girls to "call" a guy they don't know a dork.

And eventually end with something like "hey I'm going to the game room (or something else you'd normally go), are you going?" that, again, says you already have a fun plan going on and want her to join, rather than sounding like begging.

Good luck man, just stand tall and have fun you'll be fine.

Answer 3

Nothing!!! Smile & look her directly in her eyes when you do it, it's worth a thousand words you want to say but can't think of! Smiling will get her attention faster than anything. Once you have her attention keep smiling every time you see her. If she is interested she will approach you, trust me! Maybe she is one of those shy ones, so after you have a mutual smile it won't be so awkward to just say hey, do that a couple days, then move on to "how ya doin", just work your way in a little at a time. Don't just jump right in there, she'll think your a freak or something!

Answer 4

You need to exercise caution when approaching strangers especially pretty girls. Try things like offer you seat to a girl in a crowded cafe/restaurants, offer to open the car doors for her if her hands are full, etc.. These actions could kick-start a conversation and eventually leads to friendship.

Answer 5

A simple smile. goes a long way.

and if you want to say something without looking like a freak:
to catch her, ask her a question, like how do you get there, or something like that. and before you leave slip in a compliment.
well that's just a start.
be slick.

chances are the girl will be all over it.

be more causual rather than trying to be up on her face, like oh i want you stuff.

cause i just find that creepy &annoying.

but hey each girl is different.

Answer 6

Make eye contact but dont gaze lustfully at her. (ew) If she is looking back and not cringing at your gaze, make a comment about how much you like her (Boots, eyeglasses, hat...no body comments!) She will probably feel complemented, I would. If she reacts positively, tell her you felt nervous talking to her at first to show that you are human too and not a raving pervert. Stay calm, if you appear nervous it could send up her red flag.

Answer 7

Try "hi", "beautiful day today", "how are you", "you look great today"' etc.
I'm not a pro but I think you just need to start the process and it will run it's course. The point is someone has to speak up first and the male is supposed to lead the way traditionally.
Your confidence will grow, don't worry about it. Just speak up.

Answer 8

first give her a little smile, or eye contact, so she knows that you have noticed her..... then when you are close, just simply say hi, how are you doing?... wait for her respond... if she says something and starts walking away, forget about it... but if she stays a few seconds after she finishes her reply... try and think of something else to say quick, to get a conversation going.... and hopefully you guys would exchange numbers or something......


hope that helps :]

Answer 9

you shouldnt talk to new people out of random,... well i dont i talk to them when i am but in situations when i can like in line or bump in to or waiting in the restroom but like i dont just walk up and say "ay good lookin" but that is just me....but what you coulddo is act like you thought they were someone else who was fatter but be like hey you looked good whered it all go? and when they are like what are you talkin about .. be like you look great now whered all the weight go since the baby and they would be like what the heck and then you walk away like a weirdo

Answer 10

Umm keep it to yourself? Guys who do that are creeps. If you don't know them than they usually don't care. But if you know them, or like them than just strike up a conversation. If some random guy I didn't know told me I looked good I'd have to punch him. And especially don't honk at girls when they're walking down the street. It makes them feel uncomfortable and unsafe.