2006-12-29 16:58:28 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like your young. I would suggest that you consider this. Once you have given that which is precious away you can never get it back. You will meet and have more boyfriends and they will all be important relationships. Which ones are important enough to take this big step? Later when you think about this, you will probably see things differently than you do right now. Sex seems like a fun recreational activity but it is much more than that. Sexual relationships at a young age reduce the value of that one way you can really share a bond. I imagine there are quite a few people who wish now that they had waited until they were married but can't change things. Young men tend to be awkward and lack experience and for that reason it is generally not a pleasant memorable experience for the young lady. That is a shame because it should be. It is how you demonstrate true love for someone. Because of the consequences, it should be shared with your one true love. I hope you really think hard about this before you make a casual decision about something that is more important than everyone leads you to believe.
Good luck on your decision.
2006-12-29 17:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex until ...
1. You are 17 are older
2. You want to do it
3. You KNOW you should do it
4. You understand the responsibilities of sex and can talk to your partner about using protection and the possibilities of an unplanned pregnancy.
If these things aren't present - then don't have sex.
2006-12-29 17:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both of a legal age, you really seriously love him, and you're sure he really seriously loves you, go ahead. Use caution, though: some guys just want variety and will dump you after a few nights. If you know some of his friends or exes, ask them about him. Virginity is a precious thing, and you shouldn't give it away lightly. Also, use contraceptives.
2006-12-29 17:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by adanarama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't... 'cos you have a better life to lead than with such a guy who needs sex!!!!!! Sex is just a part of Marriage... and rest of the life is all about love, affection and commitments!!! You still have a long way to go.... Trying talking to him, make him understand if he doesn't, ask him to hang himself up side down!!!
2006-12-29 17:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you should, don't be in any hurry. Sex is no fun if you don't feel good about it emotionally, and your boyfriend's b$#^s aren't going to explode if you don't have sex with him, despite what some boys on this forum may think.
2006-12-29 17:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you may or may not want to have sex before you decide. If you do, don't let anybody talk you out of it, but use protection(or get him to do it). If you don't, see if your boyfriend is willing to consider pleasuring yourselves in other ways.
2006-12-29 17:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by ddey65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If You Agree Wear A Condom But It Depends If Your Not In The Mood Don't If U Are Go Ahead!
2006-12-29 17:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Govi's Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you believe that you and he are mature enough to deal with the consequences of sexual intimacy? How important is it to you to only have sexual relations with a man you want to be the father of your children? Is he this man? How important is sexual intimacy to him? Talk to him, talk to your parents, talk to a counselor, talk to your religious mentor... You must know in your heart that you really want to have sex before you do it. If you are not sure, DO NOT HAVE SEX.
2006-12-29 17:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by Seph S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. If you don't want to, just say no. Your first time is really special, so don't just give it up because your boyfriend is just pushing you into it. If you really do think you're ready then do it, but you gotta be safe
2006-12-29 17:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a factor. But wait, if he doesnt understand, then he isnt worth it. Sex isnt everthing. You can still fool around as long as the boudaries are understood. WAIT - if have any doubts.
2006-12-29 17:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by scorpiosa70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋