ok i go wit my bestfriends boyfriend brother right. ok I havent seen him in a while so i thought he was blowing me off. Then yesterday my bestfriend asked me to go wit her over her boyfriend house so i said ok. Then her boyfriends cusin was over there. So we sitting watching music videos me my best friend her boyfriend, and his cusin. Then they juss throw me and her boyfriends cusin out. Then me and his cusin juss start kissing.Then tougue kissing for like 20 minutes. Now juss the same day my boyfriend wanna come back. I mma see him tomorrow. but i might have feelings for his cusin. because we were kissing for long while. We all are going skating tomorrow and it is gonna be so ackward and i dont know what to do. So please somebody help wit dis situation!!!!!
2006-12-29 16:50:34 · 20 answers · asked by Juciy_J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I feel you need first figure out to see if the cousin really wants to be with you or even if you want to be with him or the brother.... Than if you want the cousin tell the brother that you don't understand why he was acting the way he was and you don't want to be with someone who you feel is not paying attention to you and say I feel I have found someone who you feel wants to pay more attention to you and tell him your sorry that it has to be like that ,but it is...Now if you want the brother you need to tell the cousin you made a mistake and know that the cousin has already told the (brother) that he kissed you so you need to go to the brother and tell him the truth about what happened but that you made a mistake and you would like to know why he was blowing you off. Because that wasn't right either..Just be aware that he might not want to work things out with you but you can say that you both made a mistake and you would like another chance...Because your willing to give him one. Good luck Really think about it.
2006-12-29 17:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by parentsofbadmeandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a situation that you brought on yourself because you succumbed to temptation. As far as dealing with the situation there is not much you can do except just to level with your boyfriend about what happened and hope he understands if you still like him. Even doing this might upset the cousin you kissed for so long since he will be with you. I think you need to be very careful about what you say to anyone and maybe if you don't bring up what happened then no one will say anything and nothing will happen. To insure this can be the case why don't you tell the cousin not to say anything about what happened between the two of you? In this way maybe the boyfriend will not find out.
2006-12-30 00:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you intimate with your bestfriends bf's brother? If not, you shouldn't have a problem, especially since you haven't seen him [the first one] in a while. You're not committed to either of them. They both should be showing you a lot of attention, even competing with each other over you. Speaking for myself, I wouldn't get too kissey, kissey with someone I've just met at my friends house. You didn't say why they threw you two out of the house. Don't you have character? Integrity? Maybe there is a lack of those qualities and that's why you say your life is messed up. Don't let a dude take advantage of you like that. You don't have to be submissive to him like that unless he is your husband.
2006-12-30 01:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, I can barely make out what you're asking. I had to read this more than once to figure it out.
You kissed a guy who wasn't your boyfriend but your boyfriend's cousin. Your boyfriend hadn't seen you in awhile. Now your BF wants to come back.
Did it ever occur to you that your BF and his cousin talk to each other? Either go and handle it or don't go. Awkward is a part of life. Learn to make your decisions carefully.
2006-12-30 00:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay by ur screen name thingy i'm guessing ur 14 right?? anyway first i wanna say LUCKY i wanna tounge kiss a hottie and second just forget the cusin cuz most likely he was thinkin just a one night stand....BUT ur boyfriend did leave u for a while so its pretty much up to the guys find out if the cousin has feelings for you cuz i once kissed a guy cuz i was like bored and it ment alot more to him than it did to me so that kiss might have ment more to you than him so just check it out ask questions but in the end its YOUR decision
2006-12-30 00:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by teenage_drama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you have feelings for a guy that you just kissed. i think you should leave both of them along because you are going to be the one that will end up hurt in the long run because his cousin is going to tell your boyfriend that you and he was making out . good luck
2006-12-30 00:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first... Stop stressing out, coz then you will get pimples for your skating thing... and that will be another problem.
Do you still have feelings for ur bf?
if not go with the cousin!
Hell have a go do it while your young coz one day you will be married with kids and thinking what if!
Good luck!
2006-12-30 01:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by elfsbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to never have a relationship within a family or with your boyfriend's or exboyfriends relations. Bad news to start with there, but you will have to make your mind up who and what you want to do. It begins an ends with you. Figure out who you want and be with them. In the end, neither of them will be happy with you unless they are very forgiving.
2006-12-30 00:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow, dude your bf blew you off, it shouldnt be that easy for him to come back.. i dont know how long he blew you off. Your bf probably heard that you were there with his cousin, and hes jealous but for get him dude, you dont need to be with a guy that blew you off!
As for the cousin, its kind of hard to tell if you have feelings for him, i mean youve only known him for like an hour..but if you think theres something there go for it, just becareful he's cousins with your ex bf, and your bestfriends bf's cousin..lol that sounds like some jerry springer ****..lol
2006-12-30 00:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Chunkerbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss in don't make a relationship neither does an ex booy friend. Get on with your life and have fun.
2006-12-30 00:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋