i like by best friend, i have since i met her about a year ago, we tried to go out a long time ago but it didnt work out. Were like brother and sister, and she loves me alot, were closer then ne other person i know but thats all she see's it as. She has a bf, and i dont know wat to do. Whenever im around them i cant help but feel awful, but wat do i do if the girl i love only loves me as a brother and nothing more??
2006-12-29 16:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by cam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as bad as you feel, be happy for the both of them that they find someone to love.. and don't push into the relationship.. you don't know how painful and confused for the other personwhen somene decide t hogg or be jealous...
2006-12-29 16:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i actually have this same problem wich is sorta wierd but i would just wait until her and her b/f break up because then you could tell her how you feel and then htere would so be a better chance for her liking you more than just a "brother." Unless you feel so comfortable telling her now. GOOD LUCK DUDE!
2006-12-30 00:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by ballin221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing u could do iz jus love her back....az a sister...if u tell her u like her in a serious kind away..it might mess up ur whole friendship..bcuz u kno shw has a bf and u come outta no where sayin u like her...u might hurt her feelins!
2006-12-30 00:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a situation exactly like this.... my best friend who i have known since 7th grade [we are now in 10th]... he likes me---he has never told me, but it is kinda obvious and my other bestfriend told me he said it.
but anyway... i only saw him as a bestfriend, nothing more... i do love him, and i would do anything for him, he's like my brother. but its just the fact that we have been friends for so long, it just feel weird to look at him as a boyfriend type figer. sometimes i do think about me being with him though.... i thiink what if we did go out.. what if__... etc.... but i dont want to put our friendship at risk... what if we brake up, and we never talk again?..... that is what held me back from him all this time, and i could never bring myself to dating him, even though we have everything in common, and he is the sweetest guy i know.
i just tried to never get on the subject of us, and he never brought it up... and he is kind of moving on... i just cant bring myself to talk to him about it, idk why... he doesnt even know that i know,
maybe she feel something like this?... and maybe she is reacting how i did?..... well i hope things work out for you, and all goes well
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2006-12-30 01:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you feel. that is the only way she will ever know how you feel about her. but not in this time that she has a bf. i suggest in a time that they are not together. but not that fast. try to approach slowly.
2006-12-30 00:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur feelings, and if she said yes that great, and she said no, then go find another one, this a big country, there millions of girls in this country
2006-12-30 00:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel
2006-12-30 00:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy-C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋