So I really like this girl and I know she likes me, but she never actually admits it. Whenever I say something dorky or humorous, she says I'm silly. Is that a complement or a nice way of saying I'm a nerd?
2006-12-29 16:18:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is hitting on you. it is not a nice way of saying you are a nerd. lol. you're so silly. ;)
2006-12-29 16:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that's a compliment. I've been called silly lots of times. But the people calling me silly are laughing while they are calling me silly. That can't be a bad thing. If she's angry or agitated while she's calling you silly then I would take that as your "silliness" being a turn off to her. Otherwise I'd take it as a compliment.
If you are concerned enough, why don't you ask her? It can't hurt.
2006-12-30 00:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing sometimes. Sometimes people just run out of things to say. it happens to me all the time. or if a guy has said something incredibly stupid (not saying u did) and I don't want to be mean by telling him it was stupid, I'll tell him he is silly. BUT trust me, it is normally a good thing.
2006-12-30 00:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to say i always say to guys when they are like that they are silly...i would not think she means ur a nerd maybe shes saying it in a funny way...the best thing u should do is talk to her i know that could be hard but its the bes thing to do
2006-12-30 00:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how she says it. Like if she laughs and smiles while saying you are silly, then yeah, it's a compliment. If she looks annoyed, or sighs, then it isn't a compliment. But for the most part, sounds like she likes you.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-30 00:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both - she laughed so obviously she thinks you have a good personality. Just be yourself. Are you saying these things on purpose to get her to laugh? If so, don't go overboard. Let her see the real you too. Don't ask her for a while if she likes you, just assume she does. If you are wrong - she'll definetly let you know!
2006-12-30 00:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I use the word silly I usually use it affectionately... like I'll tell it to a bf or i'll tell it to a guy friend, etc... it's a good thing I think. It's good you're making her laugh =)
2006-12-30 00:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She actually thinks you are funny (ps kiddo thats a good thing) I said that to a few funny kids and to my little brother. And to my best friend because they act funny. No biggy at all.
2006-12-30 00:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Paola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, yes it's a nice way of saying that whatever you said is sort of nerdy. But hey, at least she's being nice about it.
2006-12-30 00:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by wendylotr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had a lot of experience with stuff like this and it means she thinks you're acting funny and sometimes even hitting on u
2006-12-30 00:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by i buy my marmots on Ebay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋