Do handsome guys have more difficulties approaching women?

Question

I am good looking. But i think people have higher expectations with good looking men like me and my embarrassment will be twice as much if i got rejected. your fear of rejection will definitely greater if you are a handsome guy or pretty babe. How can i overcome this barrier which comes with good looks?

Answer 1

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P.S, you can in the meantime, play hard to get but not impossible. The book says that if you make it hard for them to get you, but not impossible, they are more likely to fall for you than if you were to go giving yourself away. Once they have you, since it took so much for them to get you, their expectations willl not be as high because they had a hard time getting you and all they will care about thereafter is keeping you, no matter what the cause. Hit me up if you want more tips bro.

Answer 2

hahaha dude wer in desame position...but it is hard sometimes cause some women expects 2 much ...sometimes our pride gets carried away which is my big problem cause we know we can do better than that and i notice some women i try 2 approach are actually intimitated which annoys me cause i feel like im only an ordinary guy thats why sometimes i have doubts when asking a girl out cause i hate rejections 2 it feels like all of ur dignity and confidence lost..thanks god never had 1 but i totally agree with adam..Play Hard to Get!!!

Answer 3

haha this makes me laugh a little. Well, I don't think that the fear of rejection is greater because of looks. I have a guy friend of mine who is really insecure about his looks and fears rejection a lot more than most people I know. Be thankful of your good looks, that's all I have to say. Don't be embarrassed about it, you were born with them for a reason. Overcoming the "barrier" I'm not so sure of. I just say be yourself, and have a little more confidence. If you want to meet someone just go up to them strike up conversation. There isn't a secret trade on it, it's just if the person is right for you, looks won't matter.

Answer 4

Approach women with some snot hanging out of your nose. Alternatively, rub some dog mess in your hair.

Answer 5

let alone.....women think us good looking guys are either players, gay or already taken and are just a dog for looking/asking another out. many believe we are liars as well before we even speak.

many men have given us a bad rap. it just sucks dude and there is no magic trick or way.

Answer 6

Come up with a good pick up line especially when you've had a drink or two. Works for me.

Answer 7

we have the same situation.

try to ask girls out. try to go to bars and never fear.
if you are truly a handsome guy, then there should be no problem going on a date.

Answer 8

No treat them like you got game..man...Come on get some nads! Stop whinning and take charge. Women like a take charge guy who treats them bad..I am not saying hitting them..but I am saying ignore the phone calls they make, stand em up..put a little challenge to them..do not just spoon feed them it..they like DRAMA..

Answer 9

Don't worry so much about other people's expectations.
Remember that pretty girls can be shy, too.

Answer 10

i don`t think handsome guys have more trouble because their more confident than ugly guys because they know they are cute