Since then, my sex drive has gotten larger than ever. I'm now back with an my son's father and I told him in advance about my sex drive. In the begining, he didn't care. A month later, we are arguing and he is giving me hints that he doesn't approve of it. We've been together for four months now, and I'm not happy at all. I fake like I am happy with relationship when I'm not just to keep the arguing down. We decided to have sex on tuesdays & fridays just to solve this issue, and it's been 2 weeks and still no sex! What should I do? Should I find someone else? Or is my sex drive a big problem in this relationship?
2006-12-29 16:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by Mesha 3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't stay with someone that you aren't happy with. Your son will know you aren't happy and it will affect him too. Is the only thing that is making you unhappy lack of sex? Even so, I wouldn't stay with anyone I wasn't happy with.
2006-12-29 16:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by wendylotr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to a relationship than just sex. Don't get me wrong, I do agree that it plays a HUGE role in it, it's just that there is more. Sounds to me what you need to do is find someone with the same kind of drive that you have. I have a high drive too and in the beginning guys are always fine with it and after a while it seems like their not "up for it as much". With time you tend to feel depreciated and no one needs that. You need to find someone who has a high drive like you do, otherwise it won't work. How can you feel special when you don't feel wanted?....Also sex on Tuesdays and Fridays? What's with planned sex?? You also want excitement and to be spontaneous. You need a man who can satisfy ALL your needs just as you do his.
2006-12-29 16:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by summer_p1b1x4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I really don't think it is true love with this new guy. I've seen this happen time, and time again with a couple of my girlfriends. They get out of a long term relationship, move on to the next guy instantly, and end up married. I think they just can't handle being alone even if it means they don't truly love the person they are with. In the end they end up divorced again. She feels guilty because you truly loved her with all you had, and she was with you for the wrong reasons. Not to say she didn't love you, but if she had doubts from the beginning then you weren't her one. It's nothing you did wrong, she shouldn't not have let it go on for 6 years.
2016-03-29 00:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sex drive just needs a little tunning hunny. All you need to do is find out about these great positions that will make your partners just as eager about sex as you. I know of a book, and found it online at a cheaper sale price than you would normally pay if you bought it new. Here is the link if you are interested: http://cgi.ebay.com/Human-Sexuality-by-Bryan-Strong-2004_W0QQitemZ250067613921QQihZ015QQcategoryZ2228QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
I have a book just like that one and ever since I started trying the new positions and copyin the graphics, hunny, I have never misse out since and neither have my partners. Have fun with it if you buy it, have safe.
2006-12-29 16:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Adam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's needs are different so you might try some counseling.
It seems to me that being a family should be the most important thing to you and maybe you should look to God for answers. Your sex drive will wane in time. In the meantime figure out what turns him on and try it out. Good luck.
2006-12-29 16:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Cynde L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to understand the sex drive diminishes as we grow old, especially for men, not all of them but in general.
wt u need to do is to tell ur b the same thing u told us here. and see wt he thinks.
and if ur relationships is based on sex and nothin else, im quite sure u'll find many ways to satisfy ur desire
2006-12-29 16:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings and needs are just as important as any partner's could be. But be gentle. Great relationships are about compromise, and kindness. But it sounds like there's no real compromise now, and only you can decide the best way to handle it. Best of luck.
2006-12-29 16:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a huge problem not as bad as mine im getting to the point were like you i might get someone else because i need sex atleast 5 times a week!!!
2006-12-29 16:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by $$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. lake of sex..
Get someone new if sex is an important part of your love life :D
No point making yourself unhappy over something that i'm sure pently of ppl that are willing to make up for it.
2006-12-29 16:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Badmanfor3v3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would be the lifeguard at the lake of sex?
2006-12-29 16:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋