this guy i've been dating for 6 months introduced me to a few of his friends........one of his freinds called me to invite me to his house just me and him and i asked him why and he said because he wants me to spend the night with him he asked me this three times and i told him over and over no because it's not right.....i told the guy i'm dating that his friend is doing this and he didnt get mad he just told me to ignore him and hang up on him if he calls......and it was wierd because he said a few things exactly how his friend said it........i'm wondering is it because he was sitting there listening? or does he just know how his friend is? do guys do that?
2006-12-29 16:03:25 · 11 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh guys do that,he is testing you,he either wants to break up with you,sets you up by you cheating on him,or he is thinking more serious stuff,and wants to know weather you can be trusted,
2006-12-29 16:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by fraser_norton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I have never heard of guys doing that before.
It DOES sound fishy. Do you suppose another girl could have given him the idea to do that?
I don't know but it sure sounds like he's testing you, to me.
The clincher is the fact that he quoted his friend word for word.
I guess he really loves you but SOMEONE probably gave him the idea and probably urged him to pull this prank.
I would start asking around. That sounds like something a girl would do. Maybe some girl said to him that you were cheating on him or something.
Yikes!
2006-12-29 16:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, but if you like the guy your with then keep saying no, or better yet - stop talking to the other guy in the first place. If it was me - I would want to know why you were having a conversation with my friend - much less not hanging up on him the first time he asked that!
2006-12-29 16:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy I know would do that unless he was deeply suspicious, which doesn't sound right in your case. His advice to ignore his friend is probably just because he knows how his friend is. The terms used probably also come from them being friends.
I would review my list of friends if one of them invited my girl over though.
2006-12-29 16:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can set you up, or they can brag and tell a friend i bet you can't get her or something like that! I know someone who fell for a trap which was stupid on the mans part but it happened! The man was married and had a best friend, well they made a bet together! He bet his friend that he couldn't get his wife to sleep with him!! Guess what happened? The friend got her to sleep with him ! There went that marriage !!
2006-12-29 16:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful - sounds like your boyfriend is not very trusting. If he is doing this with his friends and you find out, you should leave him cause he is nothing but trouble if he puts you in situations like that. If he doesn't know about it you need to front him and ask him to talk to his mate and get him to sort it out... you should not have to put up with that crap.
2006-12-29 16:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could test him back. Be prepared for surprises though. All the best!
2006-12-29 16:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's messed up...ask him and i'm sure he will deny it...but still maybe since they are friends the way they talk rubs on each other. just be careful.
2006-12-29 16:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it, the chances are that it is not a conspiracy.
2006-12-29 16:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by wite_box 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only immature guys do this.
2006-12-29 16:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋