ME AND MY BF HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND SOME MONTHS AND DAY ALREADY ...WEVE BEEN HAVING SEX....FOR LIKE 4 MONTHS...HE IS FOUR YEARS OLDER THAN ME HES 18.....I ASKED IF I WOULD EVER GET PREGNANT WILL HE TAKE CARE OF THE BABY ....HE SAID HE WILL THAT HE WOULD NEVER LEAVE ME ALONE CUZ HE TRUELY LOVES ME....
DO GUYS REALLY MEAN THAT..OR IS JUST SO YOU WONT STOP HAVING SEX???
2006-12-29 16:01:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
96% of men under 21 walk out...........
What do your parents think??
2006-12-29 16:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is if you have to ask this question you shouldnt be having sex with the guy and in a position to be worried what will happen if you get pregnant. The truth is, most guys will say anything to get what they want from you but the truth also is that there are alot of sincere guys out there too. Its up to you to use your judgment, live and learn and decide for yourself whether or not the guy is worth keeping around.
By the way im a guy and I would stick around if my gf was pregnant- i did three times and married her
2006-12-30 00:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by lorneandtee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I'm glad you're asking this question as it means you are thinking whether it is correct having sex with this guy. I'm thinking that the time is not right yet. Cos you are hesitating and thinking all the problems like getting pregnant and him leaving you.
He's just 18 and you 2 have a long road ahead. I would say wait till you find the right one who you can give yourself to. If he truly loves you, he will wait too.
2006-12-30 00:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be having sex you are only what.. 14.. and oh if anyone found out.. hed go to jail..
about the question..
you never know till it happends. some guys do just say stuff like dat to hit.. but others mean. it I hope u dont get pregnant and Y rnt u using protection if u dont want to have sex anymore tell him and if he truly loves u hell understand since ur only 14. if he gets mad. leave him hes using u.
2006-12-30 00:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh. Girl, u'r very young. Pls protect urself u have a long way to go ya. Right nw is puppy love to you so everything is ok as time goes by, u will understand. Take Good Care!
2006-12-30 00:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I have to say this, but its really not true... Guys don't really mean that, I'm sorry...When one of my relative's was young they were 15 and the guy was 19 and they had intercourse, he said he'd never leave her, but she got pregneant and when she went to tell him she found him with another girl and he told her he didn't care about her or the baby... It's sad, really, how guys can be sometimes. Sorry I had to say this, but it's the truth.
2006-12-31 14:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, you're 14? ****, girl. Don't be having sex... I'm a guy, and I know most guys would NOT mean that. Some would flee the country if they had to. I would simply advise not having sex, then you'll see how much he "truly loves" you. That's all...
2006-12-30 00:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Naters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u neva know...jus tdepends on the guy...i have no right to tell u dnt have sex with him...I just want u to be careful...If you love him then thats u...But if you think he will be there then hopefully he will...none of us can really answer cause we dnt kno him..Becareful...And no he wouldn't go to jail in osme states there is some kind of law that says 4 years is ok as long as the parents know.. Somethhing like that dnt let some fools bring you dwn..I kno alot of ppl say how u dnt need to do this or that...but they did it themselves...Ima be real with you...if u need to talk email me...again be safe
2006-12-30 00:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by Misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say in my own opinion , a 18yr kid saying that just mean he is not responsible at all...
And for goddness sake..if he is only 18 and you 4 yrs YOUNGER!
I'll make a call and lock him up for having sex with underage...
2006-12-30 00:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Badmanfor3v3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could mean it. but then again, he just might want sex. since he isn't married to you, he isn't obliged to take care of any future children. try putting the sex off, and see how he acts. if he's hostile and irritable, he wants the sex. if he's still the same loving guy, he's genuinely interested in you and means what he says.
2006-12-30 00:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wants sex.
if you get pregnant, he will leave you. you will have a screwed up life. so stop having sex. if he really does love you, he would stay with you even w/o the sex. test him. i guarantee you that once the sex stops, he will walk out of your life!!!
2006-12-30 00:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋