we went out for 7months, i loved her, and she loved me. by 5 months time, we "hit home base" which proves that we love each other. but by the 7th month, i was forced to break up with her..even tho i still loved her (she wasn't sure about our relationship after a guy kissed her) . she went out with another guy for 2 months..that didn't work, and she's dating another guy now for 2 months so far, and she seems like like him a lot. i've been trying to get my mind off her..and move on to other girls, but everytime i try, it keeps going back to her. my motivation? 1)the 7 months i had with her was one of the best times of my life. 2) when we hang out, it's very friendly, and we still flirt. now my question is...what's the best thing(s) to do in this situation? try to keep the "just move on" and stuff out of ur answers..cuz i truly tried my best to move on..didn't work. thx
2006-12-29 16:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by robby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to remember the times before you were together. the things you have missed during your dates and try to catch up with those stuffs.
like those sports that you have missed. maybe hangout with your friends in the past. try a get together thing.
in short, make yourself busy as much as you can do, because when you become lonely again you will think of her.
if that does not work, try dating another girl.
2006-12-29 16:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months of being with someone would be difficult to forget. If you have feelings for her, I suggest you try to win her back. It's a good sign that you two are still flirting with each other. Keep talking to her in a friendly way and see what happens. On the other hand, she seems wishy washy to me and not really know what she wants or might be afraid of commitment. Maybe you should think it over first and decide if you want to continue pursuing her.
2006-12-29 16:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her make the first move, remember she broke up with you. if you get back to gether are u go'in to trust her.
don't let her play on you. that is what she is doing.
it sounds to me that since the brake up she has turned in to a little Ho.
why would you want that back that is just nasty.
good luck, but be smart about it. make her work for it. play hard to get.
2006-12-29 16:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her presence and move on!
*hugs*
we girls can be bitches sometimes...sorry :(
2006-12-29 16:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek help, either that or stalk her relentlessly.
2006-12-29 16:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋