Me and him ended our relationship a few weeks ago. He said it was because he had feelings for his ex still. We still chatted for a few weeks afterwards then he started to tell me he loved me. He never asked me back out though. I am very confused about this. I don't want to ask him in case I feel like a fool but I need your views on meh situation. Expecially if I plan on asking him about it.
2006-12-29 15:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by Rocci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He Probulary means he loves you as a friend.You can love someone without being in love with someone.Or he is just stringing you along,using you as a back up just incase the ex doesnt work out.You are not together so I suggest you move on and find someone who wants to be with you.You deserve so much better.Good Luck with it all!!!
2006-12-29 15:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to confront this guy, he's sending you mixed signels by saying he loves you but not asking you out. Sit him down and tell him you are confused, be understanding but make sure you get a direct answer from him about what he wants. If he wants you back get back together with him, if he is unsure you need to move on. This guy obviously doesn't realize your worth if he can't say he wants you back. Make sure though that you don't wait around while he makes his decision of what he wants.
2006-12-29 23:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still has feelings for his ex, he isn't ready for another relationship. You would save yourself a lot of pain if you just let him go. He cannot love both you and his ex and needs to get his feelings sorted out before involving somebody else in his life.
2006-12-29 23:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Gr8Av8or 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur break-up is bcos' of his ex, do u still want to go back. I understand we (gals) more soft-hearted so as time goes by everything be fine. I suggested if he can fully be devoted to u at least more than his ex then u consider abt patching up if not 4get it. Let some1 loves u more, instead of vice versa. Woman needs more pampering & cares den MEN. trust me! All the Best...
2006-12-29 23:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love two people and struggle with which one you should be with. It sounds like he is struggling, so the answer to your question is NO, you are not together and he apparently needs some time and space to figure this out. I would let him know that you love him and will give him space to figure it out, but that you will not be waiting forever.
2006-12-29 23:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE, don't ask him!!! The fool obviously isn't good enough for you and don't torture yourself by letting him lead you on. He's probably just securing you as a back up in case he can't get his ex back. You will regret asking him, when he broke up with you he answered your question then :o(
2006-12-29 23:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by mysticsphynx10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt.Just give him time to sort out his feelings but I wouldnt wait in the wings either.Start seeing other guys.Maybe that will make him realize what he had.And if it doesnt then at least you move forward.
2006-12-29 23:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think it's wrong for him to tell you that after breaking up and then leave you to twist in the wind? Don't fall for the BS. Move on.
2006-12-29 23:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a LOSER, and you deserve better. You sound really sweet, and you need to do your grieving and move on. Sorry.
2006-12-29 23:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone he seems like the kind of guy who thinks he has feelings sleeps on it and decides he doesn't not worth the pain
2006-12-29 23:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋