everyone says she is....and she was raped as a 3 year old....but she never is sad when she is with me...maybe because I am always there for her but Is she really even bi-polar though?
2006-12-29 15:53:04 · 12 answers · asked by sandra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I'm bi-polar. Being molested is no fun, trust me. Especially when you go through school not being able to trust anyone again. Well, that was until I met a girl in high school, she was great and for 3 years I was never depressed. I fell in love with her. I still had little issues because that's just an effect of a crappy life, but after she broke up with me, I haven't yet been able to find anyone that I can trust again, so now it's the up and down rollercoaster all over again. So in short, it probably is because of you, you should feel special.
2006-12-29 15:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Naters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bi-polar and I can tell you it is something you are born with, you do not develope it from an event. Depression is the result of an event. Being bi-polar means you have a cycle that swings from one pole to the other; hence, bi-polar. One pole is the manic side, happy, spendthrift, wanting to do something, maybe travel, or shopping in excess. The other pole is the depression side which causes you to be locked away ,not wanting to go anywhere, bother with anyone. So it is not uncommon for a person to be bi-polar and you not know this because once the depression kicks in they are probably not out and about much.
On the other hand, it could be like it is with me, I have gotten very good at hiding it. Which means, I can feel on the edge of killing myself but not a sole around me would even know I am harboring such thoughts, because I do not let it show " act normal" and that don't mean happy or giddy just not a woe is me attitude.
They say "you should be on medication" and they are probably right. For me, I did that bit for about four years and that did absolutely nothing for me, the cycle still came, I still felt the same as aways, so I stopped playing into that scam about two years ago. Sometimes I just think the government wants a medicated society, and i know the medicine companies do.
2006-12-30 00:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you make her so extremely happy that she gets over the sad things when shes with you. When I'm with my boyfriend, he can make me happy no matter what, even if I'm crying - probably, you have that same effect on her.
She is most likely still bi-polar though, it doesn't effect people to the extremity of constant sorrow (usually).
I think you should just stick with your girl, cause it sounds like you make her so happy. Don't give her a reason to be sad with you, and she probably won't ever be.
2006-12-29 23:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by krimson.suicide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was diagnosed by a doctor as bipolar, then she probably is. People can regulate this problem with medicine. Maybe she is taking medication. Also, bipolar disorder is not just about being sad. It has a manic side also.
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2006-12-29 23:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are bi-polar can go for months and even years without a depressive episode. Or she could be on medication that controls her highs and lows. Or she can be very good at hiding her depression. If you are that concerned about it, you should ask her yourself.
2006-12-29 23:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone who is bipolar needs to be on medication. they are people that flee and are usually unable to hold a job or a relationship without medication. are you sure she's bi polar?
2006-12-29 23:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing I know about bi-polar is they shouldnt drink.
2006-12-29 23:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she is. i'm like that. i was raped last year and theres some people that i cant be sad around. espically one guy who is always there for me. maybe you just make her happy.
2006-12-29 23:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've been such a good friend to her she feel like a normal, happy, healthy person whenever you're around
2006-12-29 23:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by maddywoo13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she can still be bipolar and she probably feels very comfortable with you.. you are obviously a safe place for her and you should be happy that she feels that good and safe with you :) :) :)
2006-12-30 00:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋