As a teenager, i am well over the age to start dating and i have yet to be attracted to either sex. I have had a boyfriend for like 4 months but it was 3 years ago and we werent really that serious. I didnt even enjoy kissing him. Everytime i think of any sexual activity, i get totally grossed out. I know i am definitely not a lesbien, but i guys really dont thrill me either. I searched the internet and talked to friends and found nothing so this is my last resort. Maybe i shouldnt even care, and let it pass. I also considered depression, but i love hanging out with my friends just not dating any of them. I really like this one guy but whenever he tries to kiss me, i just dont want it. I still like him but i think maybe just as a friend.
2006-12-29 15:46:50 · 23 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you just have not found that one person you really like. Every guy you kiss is well just another guy to you. You dont have feelings for him. Maybe when you find someone you really like you will feel all the emotions that come with falling in love
2006-12-29 15:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ramona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just prefer to be alone. Maybe you're that way. You should tell your exact age if you expect a good answer though. I mean, some of the askers here think 13 is well over the age to start dating. If you're that young, you probably haven't matured enough to get attracted to anyone. But if you're like 18 or 19 and not attracted to anyone, maybe it's just your personality. Nothing really wrong with that either. Good night!
2006-12-29 23:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready for a " sexually based relationship you will know and feel it. My best friend was 22 when she first had sex. not finding anyone right now could be just that, you have not found the person that makes you want to be with them, and that's OK. Just be yourself, go with your gut because you have to live with yourself after, don't let someone pressure you there can be years of regret for that. enjoy being a teen and enjoy your friends
2006-12-30 00:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because you are a teenager does not mean you are "well over the age" to start dating. Seems many want to start dating as soon as they can, but I think it's probably just because their friends do it or they think it's the "in" thing to do. There are lots of teenage girls and boys who don't want to or who are not ready.
Don't worry about it....when you're really ready for it you'll know it. Enjoy life while you are young.
2006-12-29 23:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like maybe you just arent ready for anything serious yet. Take some time to just be friends with people, not get involved in any serious sexual activity.
2006-12-29 23:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it's likely just not time for you yet. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
If you're really concerned that you don't have a libido (sex drive), then I'd suggest making an appointment with a gynecologist. Could be hormonal. Unlikely, but possible.
2006-12-30 00:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tara C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong and yea it can happen you are in a stage trying to figure out which way you want to go girls are far from your mind and then boys when you think about then nothing special comes up it is normaly it is because the right guy has not come to help you make up your mind but he will some be calm and hang out with your friends.
2006-12-29 23:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by adajimmex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It perfectly normal not to have feeling, actually its a good thing for you You enjoy to company of the guy but dont have a sex drive its totally fine but if it get serious with him it could led to problem for him
2006-12-29 23:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems you have a fear of physical intimacy. Were you molested in your life, or do you have a father in your life (just grasping at straws)? It just seems from your last comment that you are attracted to guys as long as they don't get too close and then you back off because of the physical parts of relationships. Maybe talk to your parents about getting some counseling to find out the cause.
2006-12-29 23:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be depressed about it, just enjoy life as much as you can! You can still be happy without dating, and it isn't written in stone that you have to date people. Just hang out with your friends and have fun. =)
2006-12-29 23:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋