My boyfriend still lives with his mom and his parents just recently split up. She's having a rough time I guess, but needs to stop bringing strange guys into her house the could potentially hurts her 2 year-old daughter her 17 year-old 22 year-old sons. This is really hurting them all mentally. I was planning on wiritng her a letter to tell her about how these guys could hurt her childeren and how she's hurting them herself, but how do I? How do I even start the letter off?
2006-12-29 15:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by oliana246 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To whom it may concern
2006-12-29 15:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm amazed at all the adults freaking out over your question. Maybe they too bring strange men into their homes?
I agree with you, what she is doing is horrible to her kids. Right now she is thinking only of herself. But I have a feeling if you say something to her it will backfire. I hope instead you can talk your boyfriend and his brother into sitting their mom down and having a serious discussion about this.
Good luck
2006-12-29 15:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by spaacedogg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to inform you that you really do not have any business doing this. What gives you the idea that your have the right to tell this woman what you think she is doing to her children? I think that if you do this, you will risk hurting what relationship you may have with her. When you confront a mother about her kids, she will be very defensive and will most likely lash out at you. Think before you do this and realize that this can cause you more heartache than you may be prepared to deal with.
2006-12-29 15:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't her sons said anything to her about what she is doing? If not, why not? Why should you be the person to say anything about what she is doing? It is not your place to butt in. If you do write her a letter she will resent it and your boyfriend may get angry at you for doing so and for sticking your nose in his family's business. Also it may be embarrassing to him if you do write a letter to his mother. I would not do this if I were you.
2006-12-29 15:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-29 15:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is probably very hurt, lonely, low self esteem right now. What you need to do is talk to your bf and her older son to deliver the message. You are not part of the family yet so express your concern (well founded) to other family members.
2006-12-29 15:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly don't write her the letter, she may not take it the right way and you really don't want to be put in that situation, just try and convince your boyfriend to talk to her. Just be careful and good luck.
2006-12-29 15:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Alde228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why??? You have no right to tell that woman anything. Do you like your boyfriend? If so then bud out, its not your problem and it sure as heck is not your home...Never try to tell a grown woman what she can and cant do in her own home...Really, really dumb move...
2006-12-29 15:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweetie. don't write a letter. the best thing to do would be to have her sons talk to her. that would really affect her because she loves them and if she knows that they feel unsafe...she'll change. good luck hun.
2006-12-29 15:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by uluvme8807 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, you DO NOT write the letter!!! she is an adult. you have no place telling her what to do. if you want to be apart of your bf's life, then DO NOT write the letter. i would agree with you that she makes poor decisions, but DO NOT- i repeat- DO NOT write that letter!!
2006-12-29 15:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Steffany E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋