I have been "watching" this person ask and answer questions almost everyday, and I am "falling in love" - should I just "wake up" and realize it's probaly just this person's "alter ego", or am I just being "normal"? (I'm not indicating if the person has answered one of my questions or vice versa)
2006-12-29 15:19:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK PEOPLE, NO NEED TO HAVE A COW, IT'S NOT LIKE I'M GOING TO PURSURE THIS PERSON, IT'S JUST A FANTASY - DUH
2006-12-29 15:35:22 · update #1
FOXY, IF YOU HAVE SUCH A "LIFE" WHY ARE YOU ON HERE
2006-12-29 15:36:27 · update #2
Falling in love? Really? What are the chances of you meeting? I say it's just a little crush and you will get over it.
2006-12-29 15:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I see an answer that appears very thoughtful, I often click to see what else that person has to say. I suppose if I were "in the market", I would conclude that this is not such a bad place to see where someone's head is at, "in advance" as it were, lol. As far as alter ego, sure it's possible, but I don't think it is as likely here, as most people are here to engage in meaningful offerings and exchanges of information, or to sound off, (some contentious and outrageous in the exteme), but not in a manner calculated to sell themselves.
Nonetheless you seem to be fantasizing too far. COOL IT! Make yourself take a computer break for at least 3 days! Decide whether you want to begin a RATIONAL email correspondence talking about mutual/interesting views on issues OR put it behind you. Don't keep doing what you are doing though, okay?
2006-12-29 15:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might actually like the way he "views" things. There are a few people on here that I enjoy reading their answers when I see them. And some whose answers I can guarantee are going to tick me off. However, its never been a matter of falling in love with them. Just step back and think about it a little while. You like the answers probably because you agree with the person all the time. Nothing more.
2006-12-29 15:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by whosaysdiscoisdead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should start a real conversation with the person to see if they are really like they are on yahoo answers. If you feel that you really have a lot in common with someone on here...it's normal to be curious...maybe not in love.
2006-12-29 15:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not crazy at all.... i actually met my boyfriend on yahoo pool. We live far away and have been together for 6 months. on line love is nothing out of the ordinary now days. Ive been with him a few times and have seen him so that my make a difference.
2006-12-29 15:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha thats err, how do i say this nicely.... stange/weird
it seems a bit stalkerish, you should try not doing that and instead meet someone in real life that you might have something in common with
edit: Its funny how 'LUVS ta TALK!!' said she got 7 best answers from some guy, but I checked her prof. and she only has 2 best answers? whats up with all these lies?
2006-12-29 15:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Arpan G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no "correct" answer to your question, and there's nothing wrong with how you feel. It happens even to the older and presumably wiser ones among us. But I'm sure you don't need to be reminded that none of us are as cool, as smart, as witty, or as sweet in person as we have the ability to portray ourselves on here. :)
2006-12-30 00:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
online dating isn't real unless you meet them. this isn't a safe place to meet peopl.e do it on a certified dating site. those are safe.
learn what you can from this "crush". write down the things about this online person you like and make up a list of standards. when you start dating, you can refer to your standards and date someone w/those qualities.
good luck! !
2006-12-29 15:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by penguin_marshmallow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to:
1. start meeting more people in person.
2. Stop coming onto this site so often.
3. Limit your use of inverted commas!
2006-12-29 15:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by PHOEBE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being in love with the person we image someone to be gets us all into trouble every once in awhile.
2006-12-29 15:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋