Suicidal emo boyfriend?

Question

I have a boyfriend , that is really suicidal, he always slits his wrists, drinks cleaner, pops pills, and **** like that he's had his stomach pumped so many times i lost count, and im so sick oh having to see him in the hospital , I've been spending alot of time with him latley to help get him feeling better... and he's getting there but he's still really really .. sad and junk .. and suggestions for this?

Answer 1

When you are spending time with him, try talking to him about why he is feeling suicidal and what is triggering him for his sadness and "junk." Be there to listen to his problems and give your best feedback in return. If things still seem out of luck, try taking more of action. Try to prevent him from slitting his wrists or whatever harmful action he does upon himself. Tell him that you care and whatever else your true feelings are and comfort him the best you can. Maybe seeing a professional who can help deal with what he is going through will help as well. Also, let his parents know too. They could become a big help.

good luck with all of this and whatever you do, i hope you both make it through
:)

Answer 2

Yes, everytime you know that he is going to do one of these harmful things to himself, then you call for help right then and there, otherwise one of these is going to get him, and then you will not be visiting him in any kind of hositapal. He has a serious problem, and he needs to find out what is causeing it. I was once like that, and i was in ICU's it seem like all of the time. And in and out of mental health wards, and hospitals. No it is not a fun time, and he is lucky to have you, cause you at least go and see him. Most people don't even get that. Most lose most of their friends too, and they really don't realize why. Until later when they can look back and go, wow, i was like that, how did you put up with me. He needs to go to a mental hositapal and work on some of his issues there. Cause what he is doing now is not going to help him at all, it will just keep getting worse, and that is not fun at all. He also needs to get with a program with a therapist, and work on his issues when he is out of the hospital. And i do mean work on them for real, not just cause someone else wants him to , but cause he really wants to. It goes a lot faster that way, and isn't as painful as being forced, if you could even force him to do it. He needs to learn to help himself, and learn some coping skills, cause the ones he is using now, are not very good one, and are very dangerous. And the more he does them, the more he will keep doing them, cause the relief he gets from them are getting to be shorter and shorter, and so he will increasing doing them more and more. So talk with his parents, him , his friends, and you all get together and see if you just can't get him to go to treatment, and stay in it. He will need people that will give him the extra support that he needs at times, when he is trying not to do any of those behaviors. So make sure he has a good support system lined up..... good luck, and i hope this has helped somewhat. This is a very serious problem, and he needs some very serious help and support during this time.....

Happy Hoildays

Answer 3

He, and you, need to know why he's doing this. At this point it's also probably an addiction of his, not just the pills, but all of it. The entire behavio pattern. If is starts to happen again, get him into a center for this, or he will be dead. I think honesty with self and others, and acknowlegement of the importance of life beyond the fufillment of one's own personal pleasure/universe, and love is what is needed ot overcome this. If he does understand that this hurts you, and values your love, even if he can not currently find love in humans in general, than he shouldn't be doing this. He needs some one to break the cycle and get out of it. Don't let him do this to himself, get him to stop ************* wallowing in pity, he's got you, he should be happy. But in anycase, if it doesn't stop, do get him into a center. Stay with him though, if you love him, stay with him, love is so unbelievably important in life. We all need it, him, and you. Give him love, but don't let him give up.

Answer 4

Assist him with getting some kind of professional help. His problem is way more than you can handle on your own. He needs some type of therapy or something. Be there to support him (as you seem to be doing already) but realize that you can't cure him.

Answer 5

Try and find out what the problem is. Once you find out what it is try and get him away from the problem. If he's not near it well then it won't effect him. Let him know you care about him and love him. Make him as happy as can be.

Answer 6

He for sure would not love you lower back if he's threatening of killing himself and making you experience all this soreness. end the relationship with him, he sounds like a waste of time. you're able to do greater effective.

Answer 7

if he doesnt care about his own life what does he care about yours. think about it gurl. if he's really your boyfriend he should have had listened to you. go get him some medical personel, psychologist or pyschiatrist, people who can really handle such situations. i think your love for him doesnt count for he takes it for granted if still goes on doing his suicidal stuff. be always there for him though it could still be of help somehow

Answer 8

my suggestion is show him that u really love him how much u mean to him, if it just means holding him close or talking to him. im seeing it from his position because i've harmed myself and i look back and realize thats all i really wanted.

Answer 9

my name is ravi and my email add:[e-mail].
your boyfriend do not cares for anyone.He must have got heart
in his life which he cannot forget or he dont want to forget it.
I have also same kind of problem with my girl friend.

Answer 10

One suggestion would be to talk to his parents and try to get him help.