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Well , i lost my virginity 3 days ago , and i have bite and scratch marks all over, i told my mom i got attacked by my friends dog. But i think shes starting to put peices together, what can i do to make it seem more ... whats the word.. well you know what i mean

2006-12-29 15:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Xx Wondering xX 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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Bite and scratch marks??? Seriously??? I won´t even think about what caused it... I mean, when I lost mine, I did have some purple from kissing on my belly, but that was about it.. Well, it´s been 4 years and I never told my mom, soooo... If you can´t talk to her about it, just keep avoiding her questions.. Being attacked by a dog IS NOT a convincing excuse!! :D

2006-12-29 15:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ B ♥ 4 · 1 0

Parents are not as dumb as children always thought they were. I am sure your Mom is just waiting for you to own up to the fact that you had sex and lost your virginity. She will probably berate you and tell you you have or had better chances when you are older, but that is a parenting thing too. You did have better, more informed chances later on in your life, but you chose what you did so now you have to live with that decision. Own up to what you did as either a mistake that cannot be changed or an experience that you enjoyed. This happens all over the world every single day. Only in the 'civilized' countries to girls have to make up some lies, instead of telling the truth. The truth does hurt. For a while, then experience comes to the fore and you learn that you aren't any different than millions of others before you and undoubtably will come after you. So respect your Mother for having enough intelligence to know what you did, but stand up for yourself and don't lie about what you did. It will be better for you in the long run, believe me. Everyone who is older than you, has been there done that and a lot of us have lived to regret not owning up to the fact that while it might have been wrong at the time, it was really enjoyable. Have fun, explaining to Mom.

2006-12-29 23:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well hmm... this is not the first time that this ever happened to someone else too I bet your mother went through the same thing but will not fess up to it. there is going to be fireworks big time following but you really did nothing wrong in the long run.

as what to tell your mother I think she know that you told her a fib,
and she will see the spotted sheets and stuff in time and by that time you can not get out of a lie! so do the right thing however hard it might be. if she loves you she will understand

2006-12-29 23:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0 0

Parents can see more and figure more than you give us credit for. I can remember years ago when my son tried to hide all the hickies on his neck when he came home from a date. Yeah, right. I just calmly said, as he passed by, if he had any treatment plans for all those "snake bites". He said, as innocently and cooly and calmly as he could, "Huh?" Then I, as calmly as before, and as calmly as he said "Huh?", I said, "Yeah, all those 'snake bites' you're covering up on your neck and shoulders." We both had good laughs for the next half hour, and years of good fun memory of the night he thought he'd pull that old trick over on me. We became closer since I didn't "chew" him out, but laughed about it, father to son. Whether he had sex with the girl that night, I don't know and never asked. I figured the subject would come up quicker and easier if I just laughed with him over his "cover-up" attempt, IF the girl had become pregnant. If you're not worried about being pregnant, hopefully you have an understanding mother, and you'll become a wiser young woman. God Bless you.

2006-12-29 23:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1 0

They'll fade. Just keep them covered up and she'll forget about it. or put some foundation on top of it

2006-12-29 23:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0 1

well for one just tell her the truth she is ur mom and u will eventually tell her honesty is the trick how old r u anywayz?

2006-12-29 23:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by brittanycchs 2 · 1 0

Lie to her.

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2006-12-29 23:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by The Platinum Mage 2 · 0 1

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