I am so jealous. especially when it comes to my boyfriend. i mean i know deep down inside that he loves me and that he wont ever do anything to hurt me or cheat on me but ive been burned by a past relationship and i cant help but to think when hes out with his friends or if hes not at home or if i cant reach him, if hes doing something wrong? i know with out trust u cant have a good relationship, but hes like that too. we trust eachother, but there is always that thought in the back of our heads, what if? u Kno?
2006-12-29 15:00:27 · 15 answers · asked by Lizeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you both just are jealous of each other spending time with anyone else other than you. You want him all to yourself. I think it's perfectly normal to be a little jealous. There's nothing worse than when you try and call him and he doesn't answer. You'll have a ton of scenarios running through your head. It's just something that you have to recognize that it's wrong to freak out when you can't get a hold of him. If you really believe that he's not cheating...then he isn't. You'll have to trust your instincts.
2006-12-29 15:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to come completely down to you because the only thing stopping you from moving on is you. You can let it continue to eat you up inside or find some way within yourself to trust men again.
I'll just say that I've been there and let my fears from the past ruin a pretty good deal. Don't let it happen to you.
2006-12-29 23:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by antelope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're not me, but everytime I thought a boyfriend was cheating on me, he was.
That doesn't mean yours is, but both of you need to work something out so you can learn to trust each other. You need trust or this won't be going anywhere.
2006-12-29 23:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he fight now because he is afraid of u cheating and visa-verse.........then what happens when u get married? What if one of u has to go out of town your job...or what if move next door to good looking girl or guy. I have some friends who were so jealous of one other that NO ONE could stand to be around them. they could not go out to eat, to the store, the movie, any place without fighting. She thought he was staring at all the girls and he thought she was flirting with all the guys....they fought at Thanksgiving and her mother had to leave........At Christmas the cops were called and 10 friends and family members stood out on the lawn while both of them were handcuffed and he was arrested. finally they decided to call if quits and now not only have they lost each other but most family members and friends no longer visit or spend time with either person. I know love is not easy but it should make u happy..........isn't that what its about and if your not happy now..............u wont be later either.
2006-12-29 23:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by texasue77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will u had a bad past its not fair to him to pay for someone mistake trust him unless u have doubts but u need to learn to trust u are risking your relationship with him on a what if he cheats deal because your ex did
2006-12-29 23:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is a poison which will destroy relationships sooner or later. it's a poisonous cycle: jealousy -> argument -> denial -> cold war -> breakup. one must have trust in another person, be it letting your man go out with his friends for some drinks on a night out or whatever. trust builds relationships and maintains it. I'm sure with trust, any trustworthy man would appreciate that & in turn respect you for that.
2006-12-29 23:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lollipop gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if yous really trusted each other then there would be no reason for either of yous to be this way... get the baggage from your last relationship out of this one or it's gonna desrtoy this relationship and if yous don't trust each other (which yous don't) end the relationship now before it goes any further :) :) :)
2006-12-29 23:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur bfs different than ur ex(es) im sorry 4 ur past, but hes the present... dont do this 2 urself if u feel and trust hes not cheating on you.
much luv<3
2006-12-29 23:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by xojessox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u trust him u know he isnt messing around right? u gotta to think of the present not the pass. just remeber and always say it to yourself when he goes out with his friends(he loves me, he wouldnt mess around, thats just not me) and do something to keep u distracted
2006-12-29 23:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him to wherever he goes.
2006-12-29 23:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by wonderful girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋