this new year is our 3 yr anniversary and a part of me feels like what we had is dying and evertime i try to talk to him he has this i dont care attitude i dont know what to do im positive it is not another girl god i dont know what to do like right now im supposed to be happy but im not i realize i have dependency issues the real me would drop him first time he upset me but lately i feel alone he works 7 days a week i see him every night when he gets home we watch a movie and go to sleep why cant i leave him? should i? what would you do?? im soo0 fd up in the head and i should be having fun right now not being miserable im only 22 yrs old what is wrong with me??
2006-12-29 15:00:19 · 5 answers · asked by bkgrl718 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok we dont live togethr we just meet up cuz we live close to eachother but i am so unhappy lately we broke up several times before but this time i cant take ity anymore i just cant get the courage to leave what do i do? how can i just get over him i mean 3 fn years god im sitting in my room crying and he isnt picking up his phone im so0 upset how do i stop caring so much he obviously did please help
2006-12-29 15:14:58 · update #1
Why are you with him? You're unhappy, miserable, and you feel like your relationship is dying. And to top it off, he doesn't seem to care. Just break up with him. I know it can be hard, but it's just because you're used to him and how your life is right now. But you can change it.
2006-12-29 15:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At three years I guess it is really time to evaluate the situation. Is this relationship the real deal, or are you wasting time? Anything worth having is worth working for, take a weekend get away with your guy and see if you can't rekindle that spark...if not I'd say it might be time to move on.
2006-12-29 15:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Starwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
com on dude dont leave him.U r so lucky tat ur wit him.U r wit him evry night & u watch movies & sleep togethr.u r very lucky.Just wait for sumtime & sit & explain ur feelings & dont get angry alot."Anger iz the biggest enemy of love".But plz dont leave him u r too lucky.Dont cry.He might b caring abut u.Just suprise him wit stuff on ur anniversry.
God bless u.
2006-12-29 15:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he works to provide maybe you should give it time.. tell him to take a day off and be home with you...
2006-12-29 15:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe distance yourself a bit would help.
2006-12-29 15:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋