To take matters into my own hands when my girl is not in the mood?and if so should i do it in front of her (while in bed), and if so should i ask her to get me a towel when i am done?
2006-12-29 14:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by nilbog2u 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, that is not appropriate at all. She would be very offended if you did not climax on her face and get the towel for her.
2006-12-29 14:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you serious about the towel thing? That would be incredibly rude (and pretty good reason for her to leave your sorry a**.)
Now, honestly, some women like the thought of a man "taking matters into his own hands", even if it isn;t in front of them. However, you had better ask if she wants to watch before you just get on with it. Or else, she might have yet another reason to leave you!
2006-12-29 22:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by amyo4190 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strike a comprimise! Whenever this happens in my house (either with me or my hubby) we get playful about it and "help" each other out. Sometimes by kissing and holding eachother while we "finish off", or being a captive audience for one another.
I'd talk to her about it when it's not in the moment, and ask her how you two should handle it. It happens. It's a fact of life that your partner isn't always going to be in the mood at the same time as you. Does that mean that we have to stifle our needs and desires?
I love giving my hubby a show! Sometimes it helps get him in the mood!
If she's a big ol' prude about it, then I'd follow the other suggestion and take a shower. Not every girl is completely comfortable with sex, even if she has it.
(Don't ask her for a towel either!)
2006-12-29 22:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you could do it in front of her and ask her for a towel but I 'd say you'd better get used to taking matters into your own hands.
2006-12-29 23:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by The Dark Side 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you live with someone it is different. You may not always feel like having sex at the same time (unlike when you don't live together and have sex when ever you get the chance).. so I don't think there is anything wrong with taking care of yourself once in a while. Different schedules is definitely a big issue.... Anyhow, whether or not you do it in front of her is her decision alone. I personally don't mind when my boyfriend does that, but as far as getting a towel... You better get your it yourself!
2006-12-29 23:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Holy Macaroni! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you start by making your mood known to her. If she doesn't want to join you, you may tell her that she turns you on and it would thrill you just to be able to look at her and touch her while you pleasure yourself. This accomplishes 2 things, 1) you let her know you find her hot and she is your first choice, 2) that she is welcome and involved, not excluded and ignored. NO, don't ask her to get you a towel. Plan ahead, have it next to the bed or in your night stand, or just get off your lazy bum and get it yourself LOL.
2006-12-29 23:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by brandihoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do yourself "a favor", but don't do it in front of her if she's not in the mood. That's rude. Go to the bathroom or basement or something.
2006-12-29 22:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT do it in front of her, it will make her upset because she can't pleasure you when you want. and do NOT ask her for a towel!! if you absolutely cannot wait, give it ten minutes and say you're taking a shower. do it there.
2006-12-29 22:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why, if she isn't in the mood, take care of your business in the shower...thens he won't need a shower.
2006-12-29 23:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by mekeygabriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya sure you can do it in front of her if you really want...but get your own towel. thats your business...
2006-12-29 22:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋