when im on a date i cant bring myself to kiss the boy whats up with me and hes said iv got to do more with him or he will dump me plz help
bex
aged 14
2006-12-29 13:32:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get in there 1st and get rid of him. please believe me, I ended up pregnant and 17 cos i was too weak-minded and too eager to please. There's more to life than some stupid bloke and a kiss, you've got plenty of time. I no it's a cliche, but if I had my time over again........
2006-12-29 13:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by selina 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi Bex,
You're only 14... you are way too young to be kissing a guy in the first place... and being pressured is SO WRONG no matter what your age. Dump him. He is no good for you. I had a guy do this to me when I was about your age... I didn't feel ready to kiss him and he dumped me. I'm 21 now and I heard that he got some girl pregnant when he was in high school... that is no way to go. I'm glad we broke up... I don't want to get pregnant or to deal with a loser like him! You can do much better honey :) Never let a guy tell you what to do.
2006-12-29 13:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are worth more than a desperate kiss. If you dont feel comfortable with doing it, him pressuring will make you feel even more uncomfortable. I was 14 when i had my first kiss. I also lost my virginity at that age, through blackmail. This was not a fair thing, and i wish i didnt stay with the bloke who did it. But i was young, and didnt think that i had a choice. You have done the right thing asking for other peoples advice. People who are older and more experienced in life who have the chance to exlain to you that you dont need to be forced into doing somthing you dont want to. Either dump him, or lead a relationship full of misery. Which will only result in you resenting him, for how he was with you..Good luck and hope your new year is a good one!
2006-12-29 14:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you like him???if you really do then talk to him about it. if you cant kiss him because you're not that keen then dump him.
if you are sure he likes you a lot then tell him how you feel and i'm sure he'll understand and let you kiss him when you feel ready. dont let him pressure you into kissing him because it could be the same later on, ie, he may start pressurising you into sex etc....hope this helps!good luck..
2006-12-29 13:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by belleoftheball 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummmmmmm all of us have ove issues on adaily foundation! Alls u can do it take issues at some point at a time and do each thing on your power to make and connect this subject. communicate over with the only u love and compromise and connect issues in the past it gets uncontrolled. solid success
2016-10-28 16:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by alyson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, it is very possible to have a baby at 14 and secondly cooties are a very real phenomena, and they need to be taken care of right away. if you can prevent the spread of cooties you will help save millions of dying giant mutated green unicorns while at the same time prevent the spread of mad sloth disease (a relative of mad cow disease, originating between the cervice of saddam husein's butt cheecks/toe webbing). thank you for your efforts in fighthing cooties and it's symptoms.
2006-12-29 13:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by L-meister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM ASAP
guys should never ever control you or pressure you or tell you what do, especially with kissing and other things sexually.
That's not what a relationship is about.
especially since you're so young.
2006-12-29 13:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
bex.. if you dont want to kiss him do not let him pressure you into it. If he will dump you for that than that is all he wants.
You are only 14, there is no big hurry for you to kiss anyone you dont want to kiss.
2006-12-29 13:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't got to do more with this boy he seems like he is using you dump him waste of space your young don't do something that you are not happy with or something that you will later live to regret
2006-12-29 18:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him he sounds like a prat u r only 14 and if your not ready your not ready if he don t like it he can lump it
2006-12-29 13:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋