well i have a boyfriend i dont like him and ive allready broke up with him allready then with my stupid self, i asked him out again cause i felt bad and i didnt like seeing other girls flirt with him or he flirting with girls! and i dont want to hurt him! ive known him 4 like 5 years and we were really good friends be4 that!!! help??!!
2006-12-29 13:29:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth...No need to be miserable...life is too short.
2006-12-29 13:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let me see if i've got this right...
1 - you don't like him
2 - you asked him out after breaking up with him
3 - you are jealous of him with other girls
4 - you don't want to hurt him
-you can't have both 1 and 2.
-you can't have both 1 and 4.
-you can't have both 2 and 3.
-you can't have both 3 and 4.
the answer...
you have to resolve all these conflicts, so, when you finally decide which of the 4 things above is most important to you, carry through with the appropriate action, don't look back and carry on with your life..
2006-12-29 13:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Piguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you stated, it sounds like you might be a little jealous. But it also sounds like you already know that. So, if you're really serious about breaking up with him, then you must realize that he is going to eventually be with someone else. Are you really prepared for that? If you were really good friends before, then I would assume you are still good friends now. And, if you want to break up with him, then you will want him to be happy. If you are really prepared to let him go, then you most "let him go". I know that sounds redundant, but that is what you must do... for yourself as well.
2006-12-29 13:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Steve A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in person, always break up with them in person. I would tell him that you were wrong to ask him out a second time, and why you did. Explain that you found it hard to see him wtih someone else, but its not working between the two of you. Tell him that not only do you have to take your happiness in consideration, but his as well, and that you'd be happy to see him with someone that cares about you, like you used to. He might get hurt, but hunnie let him go, move on, and find someone that you like.
2006-12-29 13:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you value your friendship and you don't want to take a chance on a relationship with him because it might screw that up. You want to go back to being the friends you were before. You can't handle a relationship right now because you're life is busy and crazy. Or something like that
2006-12-29 13:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Chair 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the famous "I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him either" It sounds like you just like the fact that someone is around not necessarily this guy. May be you should keep him as your friend, completely let go..and find the guy you do like. He is not the only guy out there. And make sure you let go..don't worry about him..find someone better for you!
2006-12-29 13:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really don't like him you wouldn't be upset when other girls started flirting with him again. Try and give yourself just a little longer to like him and if you don't just break up with him but still try and be friends.
2006-12-29 13:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shud just let him know that u love him like a brother and not like a lover...and that u reely want to be frends wit him and hope he wont hold anything against u!!!!but u need to get over having a b/f... if u feel jelous about girls flirtin' wit him or him flirtin' wit otha girls.....get wit anotha guy u reely like...hope i helped!!!
2006-12-29 13:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by CHEESECAKELADY!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this case i think you should just be friends with him but if you still like him you should just take 1 more chance. i know how you feel i get mad when other people flirt around him but you have to let it go because you had your chance and you lost it but you can have another chance if he agrees.
2006-12-29 13:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by MichelleMassacre 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm...do u not like him cuz of what others think of u gys being together? or is there sum flaw?ordo u not no if u really like him,cuz if u didnt like him u wouldnt have asked him out cuz u wre jelous,and u wouldnt have felt bad. have a lil chat with ur mind and heart. c what they say.
2006-12-29 13:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, u could tell him how u feel and why u plan 2 break up with him, then maybe he might change his mind and he can fix it and u 2 will be happy 2gether!
2006-12-29 13:33:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋