Well we have know each other since the beginning of the school year. He has "liked" me since we met and we both have had instances were we've been jealous. He has asked me out twice but neither at the right time. The first time it was the first day i met him. The seccond time he had this big huge tremendous crush on this other girl. Now he doesn't obsess about her as much as he did. I have tried in many cases to not like him but for some reason i have not suceeded.
WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
2006-12-29 13:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by Karla S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing you could possibly do ... is let things play out...you might be anxious and impatient... but the more you let things unfold the better off you ll ultimatley end up... if you like this boy...hang out with him...but do hook up with him right away...just let him think he can next time...then that way they ll keep coming back... but just remember that no matter what...until your married... you need to plant seeds...the more seeds your plant...the more plants that will grow
2006-12-29 13:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't be persuing boys... Boys should be persuing YOU.
Boys don't have the same feelings and sensitivities that you do. If you grow up chasing boys, you're potentially setting yourself up for many years of heartbreak.
Just be yourself. Be feminine, attractive and outgoing, yes...but let the boys who like you do the chasing, and you take your pick. At your age, don't obsess about it too much and have fun!
2006-12-29 21:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i see your still a young one there is never a right time just take it and go as short as life is u have a hole life time to worry about a boy who will come and go in 3 mo there is always a replacement and u will go threw this again and again
2006-12-29 21:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by fancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop chasing after boys. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you to pursue the opposite sex. Be a kid while you can! You'll be an adult before you know it.
2006-12-29 21:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes25162 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance and listen to your heart. You can't just make yourself not like someone. Belive me I've tried. So listen and give him a chance if it dosen't work out you can always stay friends.
2006-12-29 21:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pursuing a boy, don't let HIM know it!!!! Boys and men like to do the pursuing. A smart girl lets them think THEY did the chasing!!
2006-12-29 21:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self-control. If you act disinterested, they usually like to do the pursuing. If he's not interested, he won't take the bait, but at least you won't appear to be needy.
2006-12-29 21:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him and see what he's like. Save the drama for your mama.
2006-12-29 21:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by fab5fred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its yur time to ask him out he had the guts to talk to u and u turned him down 2times now its yur turn
2006-12-29 21:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look desprate.
2006-12-29 21:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋