How do you get two brothers who haven't said a word to the other brother for the past three years at the same time when their Father past away?
It's sad to say they had a big fight after the loss of their Dad and have not said a word to one another for this long.
Because all my husband and I hear is "he has to say sorry first before I say sorry to him". Though either one has yet to this day said I'm sorry.
I guess I have just gotten to where I don't know what to tell my husband anymore because I know it's got to be hard on him to know that his brothers are no longer on talking terms.
2006-12-29 13:13:53 · 5 answers · asked by JG78 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are any of the brothers born again Christians ?? If so that one should have already reached out. Life is so short. We can't expect forgiveness if we can't forgive. Carrying a grudge only hurts the one carrying it. It makes him bitter & cold & ugly.
A real man does not carry a grudge. I pray that your husband will be the one to reach out with compassion and be the one to break this barrier and humble himself if necessary to do it. How sad that parents lives come to an end with this sort of stuff goin on.
Please try to make 2007 an eventful year. Good Luck to all.
2006-12-29 13:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the term blood is thicker than water? Its hard to get over the loss of a loved one but life is sometimes short handed and if you dont reconsile with a loved one it might be to late to have those last words. All though its not your husbands place to make the first move try to convince him to make some calls or try to contact his brothers and maybe they could all get together to talk and have closure for once and for all.
2006-12-29 13:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 brothers, we had a felling out one time. one of them has to contact the other 2, and be the better man, and tell the other 2 he sorry 1st. dont matter who was right or wrong. 1 needs to be the 1st to do so, and he also needs to tell the other to he regrets the lost time with brothers. and try to set a day for them all to get together, and all hug and kiss and make up and put it all behind them and not bring it up again. my mother made me be the one to get things going, because i am oldest. you need to remind your husband that he never know what day is the last day for anyone, then it to late to tell each other, I LOVE YOU BROTHER
2006-12-29 13:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a sad time they fought? Well, time heals most wounds, but the best thing is if you can go around and talk to each one and tell them how they each need to know that their father wouldn't want this for the family or for them. That each needs to be a man and step up to the plate and be a man. Tell one to go ahead and be the bigger man. And maybe one will. Other wise they will have to get over this on their own, I for one haven't spoken to my oldest brother for over a year now due to his wife,and how he believes her ,and thats even believeing her over his parents. So I wish you good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-29 13:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force anyone to do anything. If they dont want to talk to each other its really not your problem. Just because they are related does not mean they need to be talking to each other. Alot of siblings dont get along because of difference of opinion or they just dont clique. Its not that big of a deal. Focus on your own immediate family and let them deal with themselves. No one can force anyone to do anything they dont want to. Prayer to a higher power works for your sanity too.
2006-12-29 13:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by carmen c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋