my ex i may be pregnant because i know he will not let me leave for london he already isnt happy about me leaving, the realationship didint end on the best terms and i know there will be a lot of heartache and upset i just want what is best or my unborn child but feel i am getting pulled in many directions.
2006-12-29 13:02:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Do what is best for you and your baby, if that means leaving London first and telling him in a few weeks or months even then do that! Yeah, he has a right to know but when you choose to tell him! make sure you have got your head round the fact of being pregnant first...then let him know!
2006-12-29 13:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well u Will never Know If U Dont Tell Him So Just Say To Himi Am Pregnant Theres Nothing To Worry About, But Since U are Getting Pulled In So many Directions Pick The Direction u Think Is Best For U!
2006-12-29 13:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ April; MX4LIFE! ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with your ex and explain everything to him, about the baby and your fears about moving away. He might surprise you and be supportive. At the end of the day you have to do what is right for you and your baby and Im sure your ex will understand this. Reassure him that just because you are moving it doesnt mean you will lose contact and that he can still see the baby. Good luck for the future.
2006-12-30 11:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by megz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of find out if you are pregnant - then you can make an informed decision - its no use saying what if if you don't know if you pregnant - then decide do i want to stay here or have an experience in London - and think on will you have the support in London both financially and physically without family and your ex there
2006-12-29 13:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by JACKIE L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would wait and tell him after you leave for london (provided it is in the near future) that way he can think that like him you had no idea that you were and found out after you left.
he sounds a bit possessive and doesn't like losing anything including you. this is not the best environment for you or the baby (provided you are keeping him/her).
good luck and i hope i helped.
2006-12-29 13:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by jubiejubejubajube 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one....he really does have the right to know, and does have the right to be with his child. thats if your not planning on coming back and living in the states...thats a tough choice....if you want the best 4 your baby....don't let the baby grow up with out a father figure in its life....cause many children that need one grows up without one...good luck girl.
2006-12-29 13:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by So_Needless_2_Say 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the child was conceived in the US by a US Father ... he has rights if the child is his... you can't just run off to another country unless you have gone through the legal hurdles to gain full custody or he agrees to it ... the father has rights... how would you feel if the father took the child after it is born and moved to Japan without your approval or knowledge ... grow up girl
2006-12-29 13:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by mangoretheogre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely has the right to know about his unborn child. I think you should tell him right away, he can't actually stop you from leaving so why not tell him now?
2006-12-29 13:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has rights too, and one of those rights is knowing that he has a child on the way.
2006-12-29 13:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kikyo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go first then tell after, are you sure you want a child with you x a new start would be better, don't forget you will be tied to this fellow for the rest of your life if you have his child......think about it.
2006-12-30 05:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋