i am 18, he's 13, his grandfather married my mom, and he's had a crush on me ever since we met 7 years ago. i thought he'd gotten over it, but apprently he still likes me. if we weren't related it wouldn't bother me, but it's just so freakin weird. what do i do?
2006-12-29 12:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Technically your not blood related. In 10 years you will be allowed to date.
2006-12-29 12:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The three best things you can do are:
Be honest
Be honest
Be honest
Keep in mind he is a person who has feelings, and you must respect them.
If the situation is serious enough, then you should both talk to a professional to sort out why these feelings have lasted so long.
The first step may be to observe his environment to try and understand why he believes this to be acceptable. Then, talk to his parents to get at the root of the issue.
Again, a professional therapist can give you a more detailed explanation and advise on how to handle the situation.
2006-12-29 21:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by rawson_wayne 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you aren't really related, however it is still illegal due to age factors. Just ignore the fact that he has a crush. He will eventually get over it. It is really kind of cute.
2006-12-29 21:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well first of all i highly suggest you smack him full force. dont hold back! if you do, he might turned on. kids are like that these days and you most certainly dont want him humping you into submission. therefore. if the slapping doesnt work tell him your not into dog-faced, cat-piss smelling, good for nothing, wide nosed, swindlers who think they can dance.
2006-12-29 21:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by L-meister 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he is to young and you are not going to jail because he has a crush. Tell him to find someone his own age.
2006-12-29 20:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a bf bring him over and kiss in front of him
jk jk just tell him he is to young
2006-12-29 21:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋