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I feel so self-consious about my appearance, mainly because I am mixed white/sioux indian. I have always thought I don't look normal compared to most american guys. I can't imagine a woman being attracted to me and I feel like if I asked one out, I would just scare her. What should I do?
2006-12-29 12:35:48 · 34 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've gotta be kidding! :)
Have you ever heard of the stereotypical phrase "Tall, dark, and handsome"? :) Well Friend---that's you. I can't imagine feeling self-conscious because you are part Native-American; lots of us are, and Natives Americans are very attractive people. And here's the beauty of being an American; due to our various heritages, we ALL look different, unlike the Europeans, who all seem to vaguely resemble one another.
But do you know what the greatest thing about you is? You're good-looking and you don't even know it! :)
2006-12-29 12:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am mixed- My Dad is hispanic, and my Mom is white.
I'm kind of confused on why you feel this way. Is it the region you live in? Depending on where you live, the mixed thing can be a problem for dating, I speak from experience- I live in Northeastern Wisconsin where it seems all the rage is white, even when there is other races here.
There is nothing wrong with the way you look. If there is a girl you like, and you think she likes you, go ahead and ask her out. If she tells you no, it's not the end of the world, trust me. You'll find the one for you in time.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 12:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was expecting some really ugly dude.. You are an attractive guy. Well dressed , clean...neat...Everyone could use a little help with makeovers however. If you are not happy with yourself..maybe you should try doing something different. Whats to lose right? Maybe thin your eyebrows a bit. You can get that done at any hair salon. Cut your hair in a different style ..SHORTER..You would look hot with a high and tight like the military guys where theres..You are a good looking guy... CHIN UP!!!
2006-12-29 12:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude confidence is everything. Don't worry so much about your looks, you gotta believe you look good and just have some skills with the ladies.
That being said, you would not hurt your cause by getting a tan, and lifting to pack on a few pounds of muscle. Of and shave too.
Good luck bro
2006-12-29 12:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there is a lady for you somewhere.
Just do yourself a favor and do not worry about it. I think you would feel 100% better if you enrolled in some class for something you really want to do ... I don't get a clear message about it ... but it has something to do with art and with refining that art to a very professional level ... I feel that you have interests that you are not aware of yet ... and you will be happier soon.
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-29 12:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding??? If that is your real picture, you are a genuine hot tie, I can't think of any girl who would not be flattered to go out with you. Have you just not ask a girl out?? What should you do, get out there and socialize, looks are not your problem, why are you self-consious??
2006-12-29 12:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a straight guy, I don't find anything wrong with the way you look. To be honest, if you ask most women, they won't put looks at the very top of their list of what's important to them in a man. Some women will say that, anyway.
2006-12-29 12:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by RainCity17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you're not bad looking, but if I was you I'd change the hairstyle. Looks bad IMO make it longer, lets spikey then gain some confidence,
best way to do this start to talk to some girls who you find "average" just as freinds, see how it goes, this way you'll see that it isn't as scary as you think.
Once you gain a bit of confidence start talking to girls you fancy, girls aren't as shallow as you think personality is very important be true to yourself humble and kind and I'm sure you'll find someone for you.
Good luck :)
2006-12-29 12:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
Having looked at humans for a very long time.......
I'd rate you in the top 10%....as far as physical attractiveness goes.
I don't think that's your problem........
Perhaps lack of self-esteem is. Proper self-esteem is not pride, however...pride is another matter entirely, and is totally unattractive.
Namaste, and Happy New Year,
--Tom
2006-12-29 12:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with the way you look at all. If a woman can't get past the way someone looks, she's not worth the effort anyway.
2006-12-29 12:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋