how do u know when the guy thinks u are moving things to fast??
2006-12-29 12:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too fast for what? Are you pressing for a committment from him, or just trying to get him to tell you he loves you every few minutes?
The serious answer is that everyone has their own pace and tolerances. A guy will think you are moving things too quickly if he feels pressured to do something he isn't ready for (just like you would!) and that's going to be different for every guy you meet.
If you really like him and are enjoying being together, what's the rush anyway? Just relax and have a good together - then NEITHER of you will feel pressured into moving 'too fast' and the problem will never arise!!
Good luck!
2006-12-29 12:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by prusec_int 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sara, you move at your own speed. If you want to know how he is responding, ask him. This is your life and you want' to live it as well as you can. So, you are going to move at the speed that makes you feel comfortable with him...and if he seems to be uncomfortable, ask him about it. If he says you move too fast, it may be his perception of your natural way of acting. If he has trouble with your moves, you and he may have other troubles as well. Honor yourself, be true to yourself and if you can do that, then don't worry about his reactions, he will either like you for the way you are or not. If not, then you probably wouldn't have liked him in the long run anyway. Good luck.
2006-12-29 20:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make excuses because most guys dont like to say your moving to fast
2006-12-29 20:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, if he thinks you are moving things too fast he will surprise you and start really moving in. If he is in high-gear speeding along, ask yourself if he is just keeping pace with you.
2006-12-29 20:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fear you are moving things too fast...then slow down...unless he says something, or you are psychic, chances are you won't know he feels that way until it's too late...
Or, you could try asking him....
2006-12-29 20:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know what I do. I won't talk to her as much. When I do talk to her I tell what my plans are, usually ones that don't include her. Some tiems she gets it and at others times she doesn't.
2006-12-29 20:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there is a "too fast" with most guysXD
2006-12-29 20:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frequently, he'll start to pull away or not talk. sometimes they start doing obnoxious things and going out with their friends a whole lot suddenly. or, they just plain say it
2006-12-29 20:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Deann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, he'll tell you or he'll stop seeing you because you've freaked him out!
2006-12-29 20:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he tells you or stops calling... guys aren't usually ones to sugar coat stuff...
2006-12-29 20:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mishee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋