or do i just leave an move to london and ring the child up on my own
2006-12-29 12:14:21 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He does have a right to know..it is his child to. You also need to look into the future..your kid will realize that his daddy is not around and will want to know why. So in respect for your ex and your child YES TELL HIM!
2006-12-29 12:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by hypnotic_wht_grl_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father of the child should know - it is very important and really not up to you. There are lives at stake here.
Bringing up the child on your own in London is not a good idea - it is really though and expensive - regardless on what you and your ex agree on in the end.
2006-12-30 00:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's not his, it hasnt anything to do with him, but if you're saying it's your ex's then he has every right to know and you should tell him. It's no longer what you want it's the child now that you should be thinking about and that child will want to know the father whether you like it or not and whether he wants to be a part of its life or not.
2006-12-29 12:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's his, of course, yes!
All the ladies answering are saying it's 'up to you'. Well I think that's a disgusting attitude. You have a duty and an obligation to tell the father which in my opinion should be made legal.
Unfortunately just because it is in your tummy doesn't mean it is just yours. I'm relly sorry girls out there that I can't change anything about that, and neither can you.
2006-12-29 12:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is his~TELL HIM. He has a right to know and if he wants to be part of the babys life, let him be!! If you are pregnant, you didn't get that way by yourself! If you don't tell him about it, what are you going to tell the child when he/she asks about their father?
2006-12-29 12:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First work out if you are pregnant. There is no point worrying about what you're going to do until you know for sure. And then yes if you are pregnant and it's definately your ex's then you should tell him and try to work something out for all your best interests.
2006-12-30 04:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by SlayerKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt give alot of information.. would be better to know more..
If you are pregnant yes you should tell him. he has the right to know.... at least he can be there for the child if that is possible.. dont know what kind of man he is.... but your child will one day ask... so be ready
thanks
rhonda
2006-12-29 12:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by greeneyebutterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could leave and let your child without a father. or you could tell him that you may be pregnant and give him the option to raise the child so it has a father. i can tell you from experience that when you don't have a father around it SUCKS!!!!
2006-12-29 12:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by fire_emt1651 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He has a right to know and the child has a right to know it's father.
2006-12-29 12:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by b97st 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should raise e your child on your own and then get married cause that's just constant battles for child support and it is a headache so I 'd advise go to London
2006-12-29 12:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by j.j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋