He is upset that some other guy is walking me down an isle and not him.
2006-12-29 12:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You know I am conservative and never bring up love making...
But I have to agree with some of the other entries here on this one.
Make sure you look beautiful that day... for the bride.. but for your husband as well.. Make sure he also is dressed for you. Make sure there is a little ... not too much.. but a little color to match you.
And make love to him like there is no tomarrow a week befor and a week after.. And make sure he has someone he is very comfortable to sit with while you and your children are involved.
And aside from being in the wedding party and eating at the main table.. you make sure you are mingling side by side with him.
If you have a little extra money.. maybe take in a room that night and have someone take your children home with them.
Also buy an Im thinking of you card with a small pic of your wedding day.. and put it in his pocket without him knowing.. he will find it and know you are thinking of him.
Also when you walk down the isle.. find to see where he is sitting and make eye contact with him and smile at him.
2006-12-29 12:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Esther J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that he is invited to the wedding.. If not, there's something wrong. Are spouses invited to the rehearsal dinner? In what way are your kids involved?
If your husband is sitting there at the wedding he should have no problem understanding the custom of the groomsmen being the "escorts" for the bride's maids.
2006-12-29 12:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that is just something that has to do with the ceremony and the attendants. Tell him that you want to dance with him and will be so happy to be with him. If you can have him sit with friends so he is not lonely if there is a head table. Spend some time with him at the wedding and tell him that isle thing does not mean anything. It is just about who the bride and groom choose and it is a great deal about obligation and does not mean anything with regard to your feelings. Tell him that is just standard weddding formula stuff because it is.
2006-12-29 12:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if the kids and you are involved int he wedding i would have to wonder why he isnt. I would think if they have you and the kids they could have had him too. So, I would see if there is any way they could involve him so he is walking you down the isle. Also, if he is not invited I would say you shouldnt go.
2006-12-29 12:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This sounds like he has a problem. It is not a rare occurrence for someone to walk down the aisle with someone other than their spouse. My husband has been in several weddings that I wasn't, who cares? You can't really do much, your husband needs to grow up and get over it.
2006-12-29 14:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him to GROW UP - for goodness sake this is only going to be for about 10mins or something like that where you are actually being accompanied by this other chap. & then maybe you will be required to ahve 1 dance with him at the reception. if your husband can't handle that- then he has some problems that you both need to look at.
2006-12-29 20:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe let him in on a few of the decisions. Also explain to him that the man walking you down the aisle is "giving you away" to your new life with him.
2006-12-29 12:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by *Scandinavian Sweetheart* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give him some before the wedding. just a thought.
2006-12-29 12:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by delldude405 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
specially in this situations a prefer to get sex with him for a week
2006-12-29 12:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by girls are cool and pretty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
arrange to dance with him at the reception
2006-12-29 15:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Nora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋