If my boyfriend is talking to other girls on line and looking at naked women and then lying about it, is this?

Answer 1

get rid of him....it's absoluetely wrong......i mean some people think that taken guys looking at porn is acceptable....but it really isn't....if he respects u and is flirting with other girls and looking at porn get rid of him.....................................but!!!! if those girls are jsut his friends....he's not flirting....and those naked women are just spam that pop up....give him a chance....let him explain himself......if his story doesn't make COMPLETE sense......dump him

Answer 2

if your asking if it a type of cheating , id say yes because he is lusting at other women. and if he is talking to them,and building a relationship on line then that is also cheating.well in my book.
if he loves you and wants to start a life with you then he should have no need for these things .not all men are like that .
but man is stimulated by vision, the can look at something and get hott.
woman on the other hand are emotional creatures,and we crave affection,touching ,talking,etc.
and we are not as easily excited as men.
it takes some coaxing.....unless she a nympho.
he probably thinks its nothing ,he doesn't realize who it affects you.
how it makes you wonder whether your not good enough,or that you just don't turn him on.
hes a man and that doesn't excuse him from what hes doing,and what hes probably doing to himself. ugh.
also he doesn't realize it makes you think less of him.
well talk to him about it and if he doesn't understand were your coming from, tell him to chose.
and if he still chooses porn hes not meant to be.

Answer 3

Well hes a guy and some cant help themselves. Lying to you about it though doesnt help at all. Talk to him like sit down and have a nice long talk about how you feel. If he doesnt understand then maybe hes not the one for you. It might be something...it might be nothing. Dont just judge before you find out the facts.

Best of Luck

Answer 4

Well i think you know what you have to do! If he is showing signs of straying and then lying to cover his tracks he is obviously not trust worthy. Perhaps you should start chatting to guys online and calling them on your mobile and looking at naked pictures of men and see how he likes it...

It really pisses me off when a male cant respect his girlfriend and is such a perve. Seriously get rid of him. He will make you insecure...
Not just males do this to females either girls are as bad as males. I think it is really easy to be loyal in every physical and emotional way and not have the need to perve or be flirtacious. Honestly there is no better feeling in the world than trusting yourself and being trusted by the one you love

Every person out there who thinks infedelity and perving, cheating and making your partner feel insecure is just a part of life... here is a clue GET A LIFE! you need a real head check.

THIS BOYFRIEND OF YOURS IF REALLY P*SSING ME OFF! LOL get rid of him... do it for yourself

Good luck darlen!

Answer 5

IS THIS NORMAL? MAYBE BOYS ARE CAN BE REAL DUMB IT IS OKAY FOR A MALE TO LOOK AT ANOTHER GIRL AS LONG AS HE DOESN'T TAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL. HOWEVER, WHEN IT GET S TO THE POINT THAT HE DOESN'T FEEL HE CAN TRUST YOU ENOUGH TO TELL YOU THAT HES IS LOOKING AT OTHER NAKED GIRLS, THEN YOU REALLY NEED TO THINK AND BOTH ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT THE PROBLEMS ARE. BECAUSE WHEN HE LIES ABOUT IT THE ISSUE ISN'T WHY HE IS LOOKING AT OTHER GIRLS, INSTEAD IT IS WHY DOES HE FEEL HE HAS THE NEED TO LYE (TRUST ISSUES) WHICH MIGHT LEAD TO CHEATING SIT DOWN WITH HIM AND HAVE A SERIOUS CONVERSATION WITH HIM. GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

Misty doll honey... If you are absolutly positive he is speaking with other girls online than its time to say "bye bye" to boyfriend. obviusly if he is lying about speaking to them, than he is having naughty conversations that he does not want you to know about. I have seen to many relationships destroyed over chat rooms. My best advice stay off the chat rooms all together, including you. It causes to much drama in a relationship. If either is not willing to quit the online chit chat, than it should be a sign that you two do not communicate enough with one another or do not have enough in commen to be interested in one anothers conversations. Get out now, before you get in too deep.

Answer 7

yes if he is lying about it then he is being deceptive and he cannot be trusted. That is not to say that what he is doing is bad. If he was being honest or if this is a mutually enjoyable activity that is one thing but the lying is not a good sign!

Answer 8

Looking at other girls... guys will do that. It doesn't mean he wants to be with any of them or prefers them in any way over you.

As for talking to girls: It very much depends on what he's talking about. Some guys are perfectly capable of having female friends...

Answer 9

If all the porn was taken off the internet the only web site left would be "Bringbacktheporn.com." This is just like running a business you need to offer a competing product if you know what I mean.

Answer 10

i would call this cheating because he is not respecting your relationship and he is looking at naked women the only women he should be seeing is you. i would say you need to find someone that respects you in the right ways.

Answer 11

It's harmless. If he is exploring himself, and asking questions, sometimes a females advice is better than his buddies advice. He may be soul searching to make sure you are the one, but if he isn't pusuing it, and just needs female input to questions, don't worry about it. After all, you just asked a personal question here.
Naked pics are because he is curious, no big deal.